Help. I am struggling so badly. I have autoimmune diseases which have left me disabled so although I do some exercise I use an electric wheelchair so I am restricted. I only work one day a week now due to illness and get bored and fed up. And then to top it off I have 2 special needs children who are wonderful but cause additional stress. But I know all these things are simply excuses. So I need to change my attitude more than anything. And I have a lot to lose. So would really appreciate some friends who understand how hard it is to stop making excuses. I am 38 and I can't carry on like this. I have 13 months until my 40th and I need things to be better by then.