Girl at work............

smantha32

Don't overthink it too much. If you like her, make it evident.

Exactly

MrJimmies

Don't overthink it too much. If you like her, make it evident.

Exactly

All good advice thanks MFP friends!

fatfudgery

Stop overthinking and ask the girl out. I'm going to assume you're not a 15-year-old, so don't act like one — be confident and ask the girl out on a proper date like a grown up. Make sure she can't think of it as anything other than a date — "Hey, you wanna go [out to dinner/see a movie/the opera/whatever you do for fun] tonight?" as opposed to "Hey, a bunch of us are getting together tonight, if you wanna come..." That way if she says yes, there's no question that she's open to it, and if not, at least you'll know she's not interested and going to coworker poker night with her wasn't going to change that.

Man up.

RebekahR84

Hey now! I don't think he was acting like a 15 y/o. What's the harm in throwing the question out on a forum where other females can offer advice? I applaud him doing his research.

Gidzmo

maybe try and organize an after work happy hour with a group of people from work? then you can feel out if she is single, in a relationship, off men for a while, or whatever.

This is an excellent idea. You're out in a group and away from the office. No pressure, just have a great time.

peterplsss

New girl at my work she's very friendly and just adorable, been working with her for about 3-4 weeks. Starting to get feelings/crush for her but don't want to jeopardize work over her especially if she doesn't feel the same way. What should I do? just let the feelings pass? tell her how I feel? we talk alot but its always at work should I try to make a plan for something say dinner? srs thread is srs.

Edit #2: just actually read whole thread, flirt with her at work to convey you actually like her, then invite her out to get drinks or if you're nervous invite a few people you work with out but if you do this make sure you're an alpha so your coworkers can't steal her.

Haha I think I already established a alpha role at work.... Brb boss is a women..brb I go to work with stubble/short facial hair when its against policy and boss says nothing about it, but every other guy shaves face completely if they don't they get talked to but she also adores me. anyways yeah we do talk and she does flirt but not much she's very friendly if anything her roommate is more flirty with me but i'm not into her. I'm go with the co workers out for a drink thing, I have no reason to worry about other guys stealing her.

Then you in there bro, stay safe and have fun. Remember the hole is lower than you think and the more bags the not better

Wtf I'm laughing because I did'nt understand anything you said there bro, also you a miscer mate?

Don't have a giggle m8, and of course bby (;

peterplsss

bring her coffee : ) and, of course she's looking at you.... I mean... those abs...

Too bad I couldn't have my shirt off at work, would prob be a bonus.........

This fukin feel dude, the messed up part is I lifeguard but all of the fukin pools make me keep my shirt on while on duty.

MrJimmies

bring her coffee : ) and, of course she's looking at you.... I mean... those abs...

Too bad I couldn't have my shirt off at work, would prob be a bonus.........

This fukin feel dude, the messed up part is I lifeguard but all of the fukin pools make me keep my shirt on while on duty.

Ah that sucks can you at least wear a tank?

fatfudgery

Hey now! I don't think he was acting like a 15 y/o. What's the harm in throwing the question out on a forum where other females can offer advice?

There's nothing wrong with asking for advice. There's everything wrong with analyzing a simple situation like it's a system of differential equations.

Confidence and assertiveness win girls over. Every. Time.

RebekahR84

There's nothing wrong with asking for advice. There's everything wrong with analyzing a simple situation like it's a system of differential equations.

Confidence and assertiveness win girls over. Every. Time.

I don't see what you're seeing regarding the OP's question. But okay. The 2nd part of your statement is good advice. That's what he asked for.

MrJimmies

Hey now! I don't think he was acting like a 15 y/o. What's the harm in throwing the question out on a forum where other females can offer advice?

There's nothing wrong with asking for advice. There's everything wrong with analyzing a simple situation like it's a system of differential equations.

Confidence and assertiveness win girls over. Every. Time.

It's nothing to do with asking her out I can easily do that it's jeopardizing the workplace where I'm concerned. If things don't work out it will make it a whole different situation..........

peterplsss

bring her coffee : ) and, of course she's looking at you.... I mean... those abs...

Too bad I couldn't have my shirt off at work, would prob be a bonus.........

This fukin feel dude, the messed up part is I lifeguard but all of the fukin pools make me keep my shirt on while on duty.

Ah that sucks can you at least wear a tank?

Nah man it's dumb af, they prob just do it cause I work there and they don't want me railing all of their daughters.

MrJimmies

bring her coffee : ) and, of course she's looking at you.... I mean... those abs...

Too bad I couldn't have my shirt off at work, would prob be a bonus.........

This fukin feel dude, the messed up part is I lifeguard but all of the fukin pools make me keep my shirt on while on duty.

Ah that sucks can you at least wear a tank?

Nah man it's dumb af, they prob just do it cause I work there and they don't want me railing all of their daughters.

Yeah prob lame as fck, I know a pool I go to here allows the dudes to wear tanks to bad there skinny fats haha