Lost 40lbs so far

sandlinal

When I weighed 300lbs I was diagnosed prediabetic. I still have a long way to go and I plan on dating once I reach my goal weight because I want my confidence.
I have been rejected by so many guys and barely get notice. Just wondering if I would look better once I dropped the weight? Thank you

Annie_01

As important as losing the weight...put a smile on that face and be who you are no matter what the weight. I think possibly hidden beneath that frown is a fantastic human being that deserves to enjoy her life.

Ask yourself...if a man is so shallow that he will judge you by your weight...is he someone that you want?

Lose the weight for yourself...for your health...not just so that some man will be attracted to you because you lost some weight. We judge ourselves to harshly...we live our lives based on how someone else judges us.

However...depending on how much weight you plan to lose...yes your looks will change drastically. Go to the Success section a look at some of the pictures that have been posted. Some of those people don't look anything like they did before they lost the weight.

Good luck.

egbert2016

I could not have said it better than Annie_01.

Good luck on your journey. You can do this!

sandlinal

Thank you Annie!

texasredreb

You have pleasant features and lovely eyes. Lose the weight for you, not for some dude you haven't met yet.

sandlinal

texasredreb wrote: »

You have pleasant features and lovely eyes. Lose the weight for you, not for some dude you haven't met yet.

Thank you

greagerkathy

Own your confidence now. I know plenty of women who society calls overweight going out and being sought after. Your outlook makes all the difference. Lose weight for you.

Mcat34

Congrats! Keep it up! I want to lose at least 30lbs. Just came back and hoping this time it'll stick! Feel free to add me for support and motivation!

rebeccairenewilson

Losing the weight will give you confidence and that looks good on everybody.