How do you stay motivated?

vholley60197

I am currently trying to lose weight and gain muscle. I've lost weight before and just with cardio and eating pretty well. I have a one year old and have lost my pregnancy weight but still have some to lose. This time it seems harder since I am trying to lose weight and build muscle. I'm not losing as fast, but I am eating right and also get help and tips with exercises at the gym from people who are fit and know what they're doing. I have the correct forms and try new exercises to keep it fun and interesting. However I feel worn out because I am not getting where I want as fast as I want... I feel discouraged and no longer as motivated as I was in the beginning. (Not sure if I posted this right because I have had this app for awhile but never made a post.)

_BlahBlah_BlackSheep_

I take progress pics and measurements and track them along with weight. Sometimes the scale doesn't move, but your body is still changing shape, so it helps to look at more than just your weight.

StatChicBayes

Definitely take measurements as with weight training the scale may not be the best gauge of your progress! (or pick a pair of pants/top that are too tight now and try them on each week) Sometimes clothes are better than measurements or the scale!

Are you doing a mix of strength training and cardio? I have been doing a mix of strength training 2 -3 times a week (progressing to heavier weights and trying to get to 3 days a week with rest times between) and cardio (minimum 30 minutes at least 5 times a week) - this has worked for me to lose weight while building muscle. (Still have a way to go though and trying to lose the pregnancy weight from twins for the second time :-) . How far are you from your goal weight? I find that it does get harder the closer you are, so make sure your expectations are not too high! My experience with adding weight training is that my weight tends to go up and down more (DOMS and water retention) and I do not lose weight as fast, so keeping track of long term trends is helpful to see progress.

Do keep in mind that with the strength training you are losing more body fat, relative to muscle so %bodyfat will be going down and you should start to look more toned! I haven't taken pictures, but can tell a difference!

Finally, you probably will lose the weight faster than you gained it! In less than 6 months I have taken off the weight accumulated over the last 6 years.

Keep it going!

leebirm

I'm struggling a bit at the minute as well, I've been going to the gym for 2 months now and whilst every thing is fine and I'm slowly losing the weight I am just feeling a little fatigued by it now.

Today was the first time I've been in 5 days and I almost didn't bother, when I was in there I just couldn't get started, I feel better now that I have got that initial one out of the way and hopefully I'll slip back into my routine.

Could be that I just needed a few days rest, not just for my body but for my brain as well.

pontious11349

I am doing three things...might be a little extreme but its keeping me accountable:

1) Eating mostly meat, fruit and veg (not tracking)
2) Progress Pictures on the 15th of every month
3) Doing every single workout posted on Crossfit.com i.e 3 workouts in 4 days mostly scaled to my abilities (very varied keeps it interesting).

runnermom419

I don't. Motivation is fleeting. My self-discipline keeps me working hard. I know it may be slow, but if I keep showing up day after day and do the right things, I will see results.

ashleyn4489

I stay motivated by looking at my kids. Reminder of why I am going after my goal. The results may not always show but remind yourself how far you've come. I mark the days I exercise, now I'm fixing to mark each time I've done good. I keep self positive reminders telling myself I can and will reach my mark. I did have a moment of being wore out and back slide but I told myself when I was ready to restart again. I also realize it's easy to get discouraged, over whelmed and over worked so I push as far as I can break a few days push myself. I also have my kids joining in. You got this, I believe in you.

88olds

Another motivation skeptic here. Persistence and habit will get you a lot farther. Determination when needed.

Give yourself a break and slow down. It sounds like you have a good foundation for what you want to pursue. But speed kills weight loss and fitness plans.

The downside of rapid weight loss is frequently the loss of lean muscle mass, exactly what you’re trying to avoid with resistance training. Don’t compare what you did last time to this time. You aren’t on the same path. Do some more research on training and fitness. Go over and check out the MFP Exercise & Fitness board. Some folks over there have done what you’re trying for. But beware when you get out on the internet. The world is awash in clickbait. Don’t let yourself get jerked around.

Personal trial and error is the best teacher. But it takes time. Don’t let your brain wreck you over the time issue. One day in the gym I had the epiphany- well, duh. My basic sets and reps program was going to work. It had to work because it was the way my body was designed. I only had to do the steps with good form, eat adequate protein and put in the time. Suddenly it seemed like time was on my side. The results I wanted were out there in the future, all I needed to do was keep going and I would meet up with them.

Beware your own brain. Bad negative thinking habits will try to come back to bite you. Keep digging until you find reliable research. Fortunately there’s a lot out there. But keep your guard up, especially when someone is trying to sell something.

minecraftwizard1011

I find that having friends helps! I’d love to be your friend!

kimny72

Motivation is by definition temporary, don't waste too much time focused on holding on to it. Discipline and healthy habits will get you much farther

https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/818701/the-myth-of-motivation-and-what-you-need-instead/p1

Katmary71

Few thoughts. The first is making exercise a habit. On those days when you don't want to work out, get ready to go and put on music to get you hyped. I've started listening to my playlist on the way to the gym. It doesn't always hype me up but puts me into "workout mode". Another thought is if you aren't taking them, take a rest day. I'm awful about this, I bike every day and do weights and elliptical every other. Some days my legs are just exhausted so I've started listening to my body. Another idea is to make both short-tern goals along with longer ones. I make fitness goals to up my distance on the elliptical, up my weights, and up bike resistance. Short term weight goals are in 5lb increments. I've lost 90lbs with 10 to go, 35 since January. I also agree active friends that cheer you on help!

GaleHawkins

vholley60197 wrote: »

I am currently trying to lose weight and gain muscle. I've lost weight before and just with cardio and eating pretty well. I have a one year old and have lost my pregnancy weight but still have some to lose. This time it seems harder since I am trying to lose weight and build muscle. I'm not losing as fast, but I am eating right and also get help and tips with exercises at the gym from people who are fit and know what they're doing. I have the correct forms and try new exercises to keep it fun and interesting. However I feel worn out because I am not getting where I want as fast as I want... I feel discouraged and no longer as motivated as I was in the beginning. (Not sure if I posted this right because I have had this app for awhile but never made a post.)

@vholley60197 at the age of 63 with health failing faster and faster I decided to never eat to lose weight again after 40 years of yo-yoing weight.

I instead went for better health, less pain and great lab results in Oct 2014. Nearly 5 years later my health is better than in decades with the least pain in 40 years and my lab results has the MD happy. While she does not promote low carb high fat WOE's she tells me stay with the same Way of Eat since it is working so well in my case. Having maintained a 50 pound weight loss for the past 4 years without losing weight as a goal is a huge positive side effect in my case since I weighed over 250 pounds back in 2014.

The desire to live many years more with a better quality of health is my motivation I guess. After a couple weeks of LCHF the cravings started to fade away after cold turkey I stopped eating any foods containing any added sweeteners of any kind or any form of any grain.

While LCHF is awesome to finding better health and more muscles in my case it is NOT the only WOE out there that can lead to better health, less weight and more muscles so over time try different WOE's to find the one that works best for you. Best of success.

girlwithcurls2

runnermom419 wrote: »

I don't. Motivation is fleeting. My self-discipline keeps me working hard. I know it may be slow, but if I keep showing up day after day and do the right things, I will see results.

^This.
I'm rarely motivated these days. I'm not sure why, but it's habit that gets me to my workouts. Just keep showing up. If I do that, I always do the work once I'm there.

sardelsa

Patience is key especially when it comes to maintaining or building muscle. Focusing on other goals besides the scale such as workout performance (strength, stamina, endurance etc), how you feel, how your clothes fit, the mirror and measurements.

Pickle107

I have a spreadsheet that I update weekly. I get to fill it in green if I lose. I give myself 5lb 'treats'- so a wee piece of jewellery, a piece of clothing etc. I'm down almost a stone (14lbs) but have another 22 lbs to lose so I need to find some things on Etsy I can lust over.

californiagirl2012

vholley60197 wrote: »

I am currently trying to lose weight and gain muscle. I've lost weight before and just with cardio and eating pretty well. I have a one year old and have lost my pregnancy weight but still have some to lose. This time it seems harder since I am trying to lose weight and build muscle. I'm not losing as fast, but I am eating right and also get help and tips with exercises at the gym from people who are fit and know what they're doing. I have the correct forms and try new exercises to keep it fun and interesting. However I feel worn out because I am not getting where I want as fast as I want... I feel discouraged and no longer as motivated as I was in the beginning. (Not sure if I posted this right because I have had this app for awhile but never made a post.)

It's always slower than we want it to be. It gets slower as you have less body fat. Think of this as a test for you now, to see if you can keep the lifestyle. You see, once you get to your goal you will still have to love the process to KEEP it, and it's still the same tedious steps every day. That's why they say "fall in love with the process", not the results so much. When you get there, there won't be any changes that propel you along, you have to build your own motivation in your life.

Fall in love with how healthy your body feels when you workout and eat healthy. As you go along, your changes will be seen by others, and in your progress pictures as people here have already said.

Your motivation will ebb and flow like a continuum, so it's important to build discipline and habits that get you through when "you are not feeling it".

In the end, pushing through the tedium makes it all as it should be. It's how life works.

Keep going!

Roberta

hixa30

I started a challenge on the Challenges forum. Basically, I wanted to eat less than maintenance every day, and count the number of days in a row I could do it. As time went by I decided to lower my maximum to speed things up. It has really helped me, this challenge.

Of course not all challenges help everyone, some you love, some you hate. If you aren't already, maybe join some challenges. I believe that they truly are the best thing of myfitnesspal. There are a billion calorie counting apps out there but few ways to partake in challenges.