This Guy at work

jadu1536
jadu1536 Posts: 114 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
I met this guy at work from another team, I think hes super cute, and would love to ask him out, but I don't have the guts, plus it's not work appropriate I guess. I'm kind of secretly hoping he might ask to meet for coffee or lunch or something...

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  • LyndaBSS
    LyndaBSS Posts: 6,964 Member
    Just ask the dude out! At the very least, talk to him to learn more about him.
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    If you're too shy to ask him out outright then you could dream up some office related thing he could "help" you with over a drink or two
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    jadu1536 wrote: »
    I met this guy at work from another team, I think hes super cute, and would love to ask him out, but I don't have the guts, plus it's not work appropriate I guess. I'm kind of secretly hoping he might ask to meet for coffee or lunch or something...

    a different team ??

    just challenge him to a arm wrestling contest.... the loser buys coffee.

    or just make a bet with him that you know that you'll lose..... like:

    "I bet you lunch out that Michael J. Fox was in the first three Star Wars Films."


    ..... or ask him to do a favor for you.... if he's willing to do a favor for you, he will be convincing himself that he likes you ( on some level / start small ).



    * I usually charge a lot of money for this kind of advices.
  • CoffeeAndContour
    CoffeeAndContour Posts: 1,466 Member
    Ask him! The worst thing he can say is no.
  • tulips_and_tea
    tulips_and_tea Posts: 5,753 Member
    If dating co-workers is specifically against work policy then don't do it, unless you have other employment opportunities.

    If not, then I agree with just talking to him and ask him out if you want.
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    Have you tried flirting with him first? I'd do that first and make your decision based on his response to your flirting.
  • melissawill2017
    melissawill2017 Posts: 1,131 Member
    Be confident in yourself & go after what you want; ask him out. If he says no- then it’s his loss!! Life is too short to not take chances!!
  • RevGym2
    RevGym2 Posts: 252 Member
    Do you know what his workout routine is?
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    Corner him in the break room while panting heavily. We like that.
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
    kam26001 wrote: »
    Corner him in the break room while panting heavily. We like that.

    I can attest to that
  • LyndaBSS
    LyndaBSS Posts: 6,964 Member
    Do you even know if he's in a relationship?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    Ask him! The worst thing he can say is no.

    ... actually the worst thing is that he would become deeply, deeply offended and report her, in a fit of tears, to the Human Resources Department.

    (.... or he might say 'yes!'.)
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    LyndaBSS wrote: »
    Do you even know if he's in a relationship?


    ..... unless he's married, this shouldn't be an upfront concern.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    Hmmm work romance can be tricky. I know it is how a lot of people meet but it is also a potential recipe for drama.
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  • jadu1536
    jadu1536 Posts: 114 Member
    So far I've been to chicken to say anything - let's see what the future holds. I don't want to risk offending anyone at work
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    jadu1536 wrote: »
    So far I've been to chicken to say anything - let's see what the future holds. I don't want to risk offending anyone at work

    Have you stalked his social media yet? That's always useful.
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