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Motoxgirl390
Motoxgirl390 Posts: 2 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
How would you feel if your significant other was making inappropriate comments on trainer's/coach's (yes, multiple trainers from the gym they went to) social media pages? Thoughts.

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  • shaf238
    shaf238 Posts: 4,022 Member
    Inappropriate is subjective. What do you mean exactly?
  • Motoxgirl390
    Motoxgirl390 Posts: 2 Member
    shaf238 wrote: »
    Inappropriate is subjective. What do you mean exactly?

    Flirty, sexual suggestion.
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,644 Member
    Personally it wouldn't bother me... but that's my relationship. Yours is different and you should talk to your partner about your concerns.
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  • LyndaBSS
    LyndaBSS Posts: 6,964 Member
    edited October 2019
    Motoxgirl390 wrote: »
    shaf238 wrote: »
    Inappropriate is subjective. What do you mean exactly?

    Flirty, sexual suggestion.

    How should you feel? That's up to you. If you don't tell him that it's a concern to you, you're silently giving him permission.

    Ask him why he's doing it.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited October 2019
    I don’t feel people in a relationship should be flirting with others whether on social media or offline.

    If this was my SO, I would feel some way about it. I know some will disagree, but in my experience, flirting is not harmless and this type of overt flirting on social media where others can see is the first step to cheating.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 MFP Moderator
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    How do you feel about it... cause really that’s all that matter amirite??? If you feel a certain way - tell him and have a dialogue about it - he may not think it’s a big deal, so therefore doesnt think you would - if he’s posting on social media for the world to see - doesn’t sound like he’s trying to hide anything - so for whatever a Stangers advice is worth from the interwebs- discuss with your husband- unless of course your asking for a friend in which just give her this advice - you can even take credit for it if you want ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    100% agree
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  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    SpauldingSmails wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I don’t feel people in a relationship should be flirting with others whether on social media or offline.

    If this was my SO, I would feel some way about it. I know some will disagree, but in my experience, flirting is not harmless and this type of overt flirting on social media where others can see is the first step to cheating.

    Sadly, you are correct.

    Sadly, yes.

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