Toxic trait
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I'm extremely stubborn and often insecure3
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I think mine would be holding a grudge internally. I don't always say when something has really bothered me and it can lead to me feeling a little resentful at times. It is something I'm aware of and working on.4
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I have a few.
I’m stubborn and have been known to let my ego get in the way of doing what’s right.
And when I don’t like someone, I don’t like them. There can be little done to sway my opinion once I’ve reached that point.
Forgiveness isn’t my strong suit.5 -
My mood flips on a dime, and I change my mind a *lot*3
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I can be incredibly impatient sometimes. I never really flip out people but feel a sort of anger of it inside me. I’m really unorganised and usually leave everything to the last second...and my spontaneity doesn’t always vibe with everyone...
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I have a really bad temper and hold grudges forever.
I'm always dependent on one person for all of my emotional needs.
I steal the covers at night1 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »i mean everyone is stubborn or moody or picky or anxious or insecure sometimes so imo y’all just need a group hug and aren’t like “toxic” at all
If you ever wanna hear a sad story with a bad ending, lemme know and I can hook you up with my definition of "toxic" traits2 -
Extreme lack of confidence. I constantly second guess myself. I'm very indecisive. I often think of the worst outcome in every situation.. Sometimes even in situations that haven't even happened yet. I bottle up my emotions/feelings.
Daaaamn, Imma mess!
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »i learned awhile back my regular thoughts and tastes in music and art sometimes depress the hell out of other people but nowadays most of the time i keep it to myself
I adore melancholic, dark, atmospheric music and lyrics are so important. I dunno it’s a catharsis thing. My old housemate was showing me this techno music he was really digging and I’m just like “this is robot music, I could literally *kitten* this out in fruity loops
In half an hour... where the emotions man.. how could u like this? How could anyone even enjoy this?”Lmao....
You could be a nihilist? That can also be extremely liberating.
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I got nuthin'.2
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »i learned awhile back my regular thoughts and tastes in music and art sometimes depress the hell out of other people but nowadays most of the time i keep it to myself
same but I don't keep it to myself hehehe I mostly exist online to everyone I know so they can just not look if they don't like it.1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »I got nuthin'.
A perfect being, I knew it!0 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »i learned awhile back my regular thoughts and tastes in music and art sometimes depress the hell out of other people but nowadays most of the time i keep it to myself
Welcome to my world, yo.
As far as other traits that are probably toxic (but that I have worked on):
I am hyper critical of others and myself, sometimes to the point of becoming easily irritable and annoyed with how others do things.
I can be manipulative and use guilt as a means to get people to do what I want or make them feel terrible.
**To be fair to myself**
I have worked on these both (particularly the second one). I realized that they are traits I picked up from both of my parents and that I realized I did not want to be like them, particularly things I had to endure while growing up. The guilt is a trait I picked up from my father, the hyper critical (better than you) attitude, my mother.
It was only after the second trait was blatantly pointed out to me by my spouse that I started working on it. Before that point, I didn't even realize I was doing it.2 -
I overthink. I avoid attachment. I want people to be open with me but I have a hard time opening up to people... ummm I'm not sure I'm doing this right lol4
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Motorsheen wrote: »I got nuthin'.
Hello fellow perfect brethren0 -
Relationship insecurity and overthinking.0
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I'm often judgemental/critical not just of others but also myself. I also often feel like I have to justify myself.1
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I can be pretty judgmental...but I have to say I've gotten much better about this over time. I was WAY worse in my late twenties.1
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Procrastinator in da house🙌🤘😩
Very hard time making up my mind .....once i do it solid but ugh it takes ages!!!
And I talk too much..... yup shocking right??😐
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I have a hard time advocating for myself and saying no to things I am uncomfortable with taking on.
I also overthink and catastrophize things.3 -
kindalikevelma wrote: »I have a hard time advocating for myself and saying no to things I am uncomfortable with taking on.
I also overthink and catastrophize things.
Your Halloween makeup is awesome.2 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »kindalikevelma wrote: »I have a hard time advocating for myself and saying no to things I am uncomfortable with taking on.
I also overthink and catastrophize things.
Your Halloween makeup is awesome.
Thanks. It’s from last year. Looking to recreate something spoopy this year.1 -
An old lady at church once told me I was a peach to be around - how could a peach be toxic amirite? I don’t think overthinking or being insecure is toxic as I’m both of those things - but I don’t think it’s at a detriment to others - when I think of toxic I think of bringing others down always instigating some type of drama - but who knows4
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An old lady at church once told me I was a peach to be around - how could a peach be toxic amirite? I don’t think overthinking or being insecure is toxic as I’m both of those things - but I don’t think it’s at a detriment to others - when I think of toxic I think of bringing others down always instigating some type of drama - but who knows
I once had a direct supervisor tell me that I was “A Gem”.
I promptly reported her to HR for drinking on her lunch hour.3 -
I sweat Polonium2
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Pandemonium_ wrote: »I sweat Polonium
Dr. Curie I presume?0 -
Pandemonium_ wrote: »I sweat Polonium
Dr. Curie I presume?
That should be my Halloween costume. Pierre probably.0 -
Me .. most days. ..
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Pandemonium_ wrote: »Pandemonium_ wrote: »I sweat Polonium
Dr. Curie I presume?
That should be my Halloween costume. Pierre probably.
Have a female with you pouring a glowstick on your neck.1 -
An old lady at church once told me I was a peach to be around - how could a peach be toxic amirite? I don’t think overthinking or being insecure is toxic as I’m both of those things - but I don’t think it’s at a detriment to others - when I think of toxic I think of bringing others down always instigating some type of drama - but who knows
You're awesome cowboy!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗👏👐🤘😎💙💙💙2
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