New to this...a question
danparamore
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Hi,
Today I had a mcdonalds for lunch and counted it etc. It was convenient as I am looking after my niece and we were in town.
I can’t help but feel guilty, is it certain no matter what you lose weight as long as you stick to your goal? What about ‘good calories and bad calories l’ etc?
If I am going to do this, I want to do it right.
Thanks
Today I had a mcdonalds for lunch and counted it etc. It was convenient as I am looking after my niece and we were in town.
I can’t help but feel guilty, is it certain no matter what you lose weight as long as you stick to your goal? What about ‘good calories and bad calories l’ etc?
If I am going to do this, I want to do it right.
Thanks
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Food is food.
Log it, stay at a calorie deficit, and you’ll lose weight. There’s no standard right or wrong way. What works for each of us to stay in a calorie deficit, is what is right, paying attention to macros.9 -
A calorie is just a unit of energy. Bottom line if you hit your deficit no matter what you eat you will lose weight. The issue with eating an abundance of fast food like McDonalds is that much of it is processed, lacks nutrients, and is filled with simple carbs and sugar. So if you are trying to build lean muscle while you cut weight these foods are sub optimal. Again it's not impossible to get lean eating fast food but you aren't going to get as much dietary support compared to eating lean proteins, good fats, and complex carbs. The other issue with fast food is that it is not going to fill a lot of people up for a very long time and it will pronounce cravings that make it difficult to stick to your planned calorie deficit. So I wouldn't say there are bad calories but some calories like the calories found in sodas are empty. The calories count against you but there is no nutritional benefit. You want to avoid calories like that as much as possible.1
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This is a new way of life and you’re in it for the long haul. Do you plan to avoid McDonald’s for the rest of your life? If the answer is no, then why not figure out how to eat there occasionally and still hit your goals right now?
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They key is to consistently be within your calorie goals and stick with it. You may see the scale go up a bit after eating out (more sodium usually), but if you are still within your calorie goal each day/week then you will lose weight.8
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First off, I believe a calorie is a calorie, but I think that food nutritional values have an impact on cravings & hunger. I try to use the ANDI chart which talks about nutritional density when making choices. That said, as long as less goes in than goes out, you should lose weight.7
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Food is food. Lunch today for me is a burger and a bag of chips. I have ice cream once a week or so, and hot chocolate every night. Tonight's dinner is General Tso's Chicken. You get to eat whatever you want that's in your calorie budget.
Tonight, for example, there will be no ice cream. I'd rather have the little fried chicken bits in my Chinese dinner tonight instead of doing the chicken without breading and the sauce. (Also tasty, I'll add). If I'd wanted to have a different sort of main dish, I could free up calories for the ice cream. And I'd do that if I really wanted it.
It's just like budgeting money only with calories.6 -
danparamore wrote: »Hi,
Today I had a mcdonalds for lunch and counted it etc. It was convenient as I am looking after my niece and we were in town.
I can’t help but feel guilty, is it certain no matter what you lose weight as long as you stick to your goal? What about ‘good calories and bad calories l’ etc?
If I am going to do this, I want to do it right.
Thanks
One of the best things you can do moving forward is try to find ways to remove emotion and morality from your diet. Why would you feel guilty for one lunch from a restaurant? You ate food.
To lose weight, all you need is a calorie deficit. To make hitting your calorie deficit easier, and for good health, your best bet is to eat a well-balanced and varied diet. Get enough protein, fat, and fiber. Eat plenty of vegetables and fruit. Don't eat too much of any one thing. If you can do that while occasionally eating fast food, having a couple of slices of pizza and a beer, having a slice of your friends birthday cake, then why not?10 -
Weight loss will happen if you're in a calorie deficit, yes. See the Twinky Diet as an over the top example of this
That said, there are other things to take into consideration in the long run - satiety and good nutrition.
Can you fit a McDonalds meal into your day and maintain good nutrition, absolutely, can you do it regularly and feel full enough, maybe, maybe not.
Taking the example of a UK Medium Big Mac Meal and comparing it with a homemade burger & fries:
McDonalds
Big Mac: 508 Cals/ 25g Fat (9.5g Saturated) / 43g Carbs (9g Sugar/Fibre 3.6g) / Protein 26g
Med Fries: 337 Cals / 17g Fat (1.5 Saturated) / 42g Carbs (1.5g Sugar/Fibre 3.6g) / Protein 3.3g
Overall: 845 Cals/ F: 42g (11g S) / C: 85g (11.5g Su/ 7.2g Fi) /P: 29.3g
That's a pretty reasonable contribution to your daily protein and fibre. It does have a pretty high amount of Saturated fat for one meal, but if you're eating relatively low Sat. fat the rest of the day, not the end of the world.
Homemade Burger & Fries
Brioche Bun - 164 Cals / 4.1g Fat (1g Sat.) / 26.7g Carbs (5.5g Sugar/Fibre 1.3g / Protein 4.5g
Burger (5% Fat Mince, Egg, Seasoning) 157.5 Cals / 4.5g Fat (1.95g Sat.) / 0g Carbs (0 Sugar/0 Fibre) / Protein 27.7g
Oven Baked Fries (250g Rooster Potato, UK 1 Cal Spray, Seasoning) 225 cals / 1.5g Fat (0.4g Sat.) / 43g Carbs (1.5g Sugar/ Fibre 3.25g) / Protein 5.25g
I have a homemade burger sauce similar to McDonalds that comes in at around 35 cals a portion and then you have whatever salad you'd want at minimal calories/additional fibre.
Overall: 547 Cals/ F: 10.1g (4.5g S) / C: 70g (7g Su/ 4.55g Fi) /P: 37.5g
Lower cals, lower saturated fat, higher protein. Lower Fibre, but that's also without adding any salad.
I occasionally go to McDonalds myself but if anything I don't find it as filling as my homemade version and often end up wanting more food later, which leads to overeating. I find I am more satiated by a higher protein diet.
I lost 35lbs 2016-17 and maintained that loss for a year, during that time I'd occasionally eat McDonalds, Dominos and local takeaway stuff, it didn't hinder my loss at all, but I didn't eat it as often as I previously might have and I made more conservative choices when I did go.
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IMO, be cautious of doing "too much" - that is often a great way to fail.
You handled it correctly - you log it, you count it, and you stay in your goals. One meal every now and then isn't going to make a noticeable difference in the long run. Will you never, ever eat fast food again in your life? Probably not. So learn to develop a healthy relationship with "unhealthy" foods.
Ultimately, weight loss itself is going to come down to consuming less than your body uses. And one day or meal isn't what defines that - it's an overall, not a moment by moment. Yes, our choices add up, so be aware of that, and enjoy a day with your niece.9 -
danparamore wrote: »I can’t help but feel guilty, is it certain no matter what you lose weight as long as you stick to your goal? What about ‘good calories and bad calories l’ etc?
Feeling guilty about food choices is not a logical or healthy response, although given how stupid diet culture is it's not surprising. I would definitely work on not reacting that way, though.
Calorie are definitely what matters for weight loss, gain, or maintenance beyond short term water fluctuations (which don't matter).
Good calories and bad calories are a not very accurate way of referring to nutrition. Nutrition matters for health (not weight loss, really, although it can affect energy levels and perhaps satiety), but it's something that matters over the course of, say, an entire week, not a single meal, and more to the point one can include lower nutrient foods and still hit nutrient goals for the day if one is eating well. And, other than calories, nutrient is about what you DO eat, not what you do not, so people who claim to know about nutrition and make it all about what you MUST NOT eat and not about what you do don't actually know what they are talking about.
To make nutrition simple, generally think in terms of getting sufficient protein, at least 15-20 g of fiber per 1000 cals, sufficient (5-6 servings, some of us think more is better) non starchy veg and some fruit per day, ideally a variety and more veg than fruit, and some sources of healthy fats like olives, avocados, nuts and seeds, and fatty fish. Get a range of those things most days and you are good. If an occasional day you don't, no biggie.
Note that nothing in that says "no white bread" or "no desserts" or "no fast food." The issue with, say, a burger and fries from McD's is that it tends not to provide much in the way of nutrients other than protein and calories (and a few other things, but nothing tough to get), so you will have to get more from the rest of your cals if not to go over calories, but that's not necessarily hard and, anyway, as I said before an occasional day that is more about convenience or a taste you have been missing is fine too, if your nutrition is otherwise on point.
Some people are really superstitious about stuff like desserts or fast food -- they imagine you can't include them without some magical terrible thing happening, but generally of course that's not so. Some may find they are super hungry if they include even a small fast food meal, but it doesn't sound like that happened to you if you are within cals, and many find they can include such foods and be just fine overall for their day. I had a pretty non sating dinner last night, but was totally fine since I had nutritious and filling foods the rest of the day.
I'd just add to that, and back to the guilt -- the danger is thinking that if something is not whatever perfect is in your mind it's ruined or messed up, so you might as well go nuts and be perfect again tomorrow. The more logical approach and IMO more helpful one is focusing on cals and seeing that if you are maintenance or below the day contributes to a loss or at least no gain, and if you are a little above that's no biggie if the rest of the week is good -- maybe a learning experience, but not something to feel guilty about. Seeing imperfection as ruined so might as well go 1000 cals over since you were 100 over is the kind of lack of logic I was talking about. I think that can follow from seeing some foods as "bad" and inherently off-limits and others are good. Better to understand them for what they are, foods that are tasty or not and satisfying or not and also with certain positive nutrients in greater or lesser quantities.5 -
I've found it useful to focus on things like calories and macronutrients instead of the source of the food. Food isn't bad because it comes from a particular place, it's just a collection of various macronutrients. There may be times when I choose to prepare a meal at home that is really high calorie and contains levels of some macronutrients that make it hard for me to meet my goals for the day. There may be times when I eat a meal out that fits really well into my goals. The source of the food isn't really a factor, although it's true that some restaurants do specialize in food that can be more difficult to fit in.
I don't believe in a "good" or "bad" calorie, there's just some things I choose to eat more rarely because it makes it harder to meet my goals for the day.4 -
although I rarely eat fast food anymore (have had it once since April 2019), I had to "reprogram" my way of thinking about good and bad calories. A calorie is a calorie.... My main problem with fast food is, it doesn't stay with me as long as other nutritionally dense food choices and usually makes me feel horrible.. I look for the most bang for my buck in calories, nutrition and satiety.2
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Thanks guys.
What type of foods are filling and low in calories?0 -
danparamore wrote: »Thanks guys.
What type of foods are filling and low in calories?
Very tough question, what's filling for me, may not be filling for you. Experimenting is your best bet.
I found making small changes to what I already ate worked well for me.
Example 1: Instead of having half a plate of chips with a meal, I weigh out my potatoes usually have around 250-300g and fill the rest of the plate with steamed veg. The fibre from the veg is more filling to me but I don't have to forego the chips altogether.
Example 2: I stopped using low fat dairy products like Yoghurt & Milk, I find full fat versions more filling (though not lower calorie) in the bigger picture, if I am feeling full I am less likely to overeat. I have to mindful of dairy anyway for acid reflux so it's only small portions and usually in a recipe rather than on it's own.
Example 3: Switching to Water/Diet Soda rather than juices/full fat soda.
Example 4: Pre-weighed portions of snack foods like nuts/crackers/crisps/etc, half a protein bar or fruit for snacks instead of grab bags of crisps/bars of chocolate.
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One awesome thing about tracking food is you can figure that out for you.
For me it is volume and fiber and protein. Fats don't work
But track what you eat and they occasionally ask yourself how things made you feel.3 -
janejellyroll wrote: »I've found it useful to focus on things like calories and macronutrients instead of the source of the food. Food isn't bad because it comes from a particular place, it's just a collection of various macronutrients. There may be times when I choose to prepare a meal at home that is really high calorie and contains levels of some macronutrients that make it hard for me to meet my goals for the day. There may be times when I eat a meal out that fits really well into my goals. The source of the food isn't really a factor, although it's true that some restaurants do specialize in food that can be more difficult to fit in.
I don't believe in a "good" or "bad" calorie, there's just some things I choose to eat more rarely because it makes it harder to meet my goals for the day.
I don't have a problem with eating "fast food" and usually hit one or the other a few times a week, with the top 3 choices being Wendy's, McDonald's, and Arby's. I usually go for something that's a little easier to fit into my calorie budget - salads at Wendy's, the grilled chicken sandwich at McDonalds, turkey at Arbys - and I like to use the online calculator to tweak the recipes to get the calorie count down even lower. When I go to Taco Bell, I'll get a chicken taco fresca style - 150 calories per taco. Other places, I don't even bother because their menus are really difficult to fit in and I know that the food won't satiate me long enough to compensate for those extra calories. Subway, for example....
Tonight, I'm planning on a hamburger happy meal - the hamburger is 250 calories, I get apples with it, and I stick with the kid size fries instead of the small fry because the kid's size is 100 calories versus 230 for the small. I'm going to forgo the cookie this time as I want fresh strawberries at home and plan to have a little ham to up my protein intake for the day.
I know it can be hard to get out of the mentality of "good food" and "evil food", especially with the peer pressure that is involved - I've been in discussions about food before and have gotten that "holier than thou" lecture because I consume Diet Dr. Pepper instead of nothing but pure water, I go to fast food restaurants, and my diet is carb-heavy. Despite what these self-styled dieticians think, I can consume all of those things and still be considered healthy; better yet, I keep the widest set of options available to me which helps me win the mental game by not marking anything as completely off limits. So can I have that cream filled donut from Dunkin' Donuts? Sure, if I really want to use the 300 calories for that. Usually I don't because I don't want the trade off that choice will require, but I don't have donuts labeled as "no-no" foods.
It really does help our sanity if we follow the "moderation in everything" pattern.
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danparamore wrote: »Thanks guys.
What type of foods are filling and low in calories?
Depends on you, but on average people tend to find more protein and more fiber to make a meal or snack more filling, and some find mixed macros (getting in some protein, fat, and carbs) important.
If you have been satisfied on your cals so far, I wouldn't worry about it, and I also wouldn't worry about someone saying "don't eat X because it is not filling" if you have felt perfectly satisfied on days you consume X.6 -
And, other than calories, nutrient is about what you DO eat, not what you do not, so people who claim to know about nutrition and make it all about what you MUST NOT eat and not about what you do don't actually know what they are talking about.
I agree with your comments and other peoples' as well, but I take issue with this. There are certainly certain foods which, the ingestion of which, can affect nutrition in that they inhibit the ability of the body to efficiently digest other nutrients. As a very broad overview, if a particular chemical reduces an individual's ability to metabolize Vitamin C, then that individual would have to ingest more Vitamin C than someone who did not ingest that particular chemical.
It generally isn't particularly relevant because most of those chemicals are known and limited in food supply, and even if they aren't, as long as someone isn't eating the same thing every day, it probably doesn't have much of an effect as you point out in saying that it's not really a daily test. But to say that nutrition has nothing to do with what you don't eat is not correct.2 -
withinthemargin wrote: »It generally isn't particularly relevant because most of those chemicals are known and limited in food supply, and even if they aren't, as long as someone isn't eating the same thing every day, it probably doesn't have much of an effect as you point out in saying that it's not really a daily test. But to say that nutrition has nothing to do with what you don't eat is not correct.
Yes, it's not really relevant, especially since we are talking general advice, not the details for people interested in the weeds. (For example, Vit C with sources of iron is helpful, calcium with those sources can reduce absorption. It's still would not be true that someone should avoid calcium, obviously, and most don't have to worry about this level of detail in terms of pairings, especially when they are first focusing on eating healthfully.)
My point is way too often I see people whose approach to nutrition is "I'm not eating white carbs" and then if you look at the diary it's got almost no veg or fruit or some such.
If you want to plan a sensible diet, it makes sense to focus on what foods you want to include within it, not cutting out whatever.
Saying a healthy diet can never include a specific food item (especially now that artificial transfats are no longer permitted) without regard to what the diet already includes and included over the course of the week and dosage and so on is almost always based on a lack of understanding of nutrition, unless it's a specific person talking about avoiding something personally due to allergy or the like.4 -
Due to my work/social schedule and circumstances I have very little free time to cook and even if I did I hate it and suck at it. I live exclusively on what most people would consider "junk food", take away and frozen dinners.
I have lost over 50kg (110lbs) and am currently in the best shape of my life. My doctor has said that all my heath markers, which were not telling a good story previously, are now and I quote "Just great, really fantastic".
Food is food and as long as you're eating something even approaching a variety of something vaguely resembling food you're gong to be just fine.9 -
withinthemargin wrote: »It generally isn't particularly relevant because most of those chemicals are known and limited in food supply, and even if they aren't, as long as someone isn't eating the same thing every day, it probably doesn't have much of an effect as you point out in saying that it's not really a daily test. But to say that nutrition has nothing to do with what you don't eat is not correct.
Yes, it's not really relevant, especially since we are talking general advice, not the details for people interested in the weeds. (For example, Vit C with sources of iron is helpful, calcium with those sources can reduce absorption. It's still would not be true that someone should avoid calcium, obviously, and most don't have to worry about this level of detail in terms of pairings, especially when they are first focusing on eating healthfully.)
My point is way too often I see people whose approach to nutrition is "I'm not eating white carbs" and then if you look at the diary it's got almost no veg or fruit or some such.
If you want to plan a sensible diet, it makes sense to focus on what foods you want to include within it, not cutting out whatever.
Saying a healthy diet can never include a specific food item (especially now that artificial transfats are no longer permitted) without regard to what the diet already includes and included over the course of the week and dosage and so on is almost always based on a lack of understanding of nutrition, unless it's a specific person talking about avoiding something personally due to allergy or the like.
Right, but you were using that as a litmus test to determine whether someone knows something about nutrition, and that's why I was disagreeing. I wasn't disagreeing with telling the OP to pay more attention to what they do eat rather than what they don't/can't.1 -
withinthemargin wrote: »withinthemargin wrote: »It generally isn't particularly relevant because most of those chemicals are known and limited in food supply, and even if they aren't, as long as someone isn't eating the same thing every day, it probably doesn't have much of an effect as you point out in saying that it's not really a daily test. But to say that nutrition has nothing to do with what you don't eat is not correct.
Yes, it's not really relevant, especially since we are talking general advice, not the details for people interested in the weeds. (For example, Vit C with sources of iron is helpful, calcium with those sources can reduce absorption. It's still would not be true that someone should avoid calcium, obviously, and most don't have to worry about this level of detail in terms of pairings, especially when they are first focusing on eating healthfully.)
My point is way too often I see people whose approach to nutrition is "I'm not eating white carbs" and then if you look at the diary it's got almost no veg or fruit or some such.
If you want to plan a sensible diet, it makes sense to focus on what foods you want to include within it, not cutting out whatever.
Saying a healthy diet can never include a specific food item (especially now that artificial transfats are no longer permitted) without regard to what the diet already includes and included over the course of the week and dosage and so on is almost always based on a lack of understanding of nutrition, unless it's a specific person talking about avoiding something personally due to allergy or the like.
Right, but you were using that as a litmus test to determine whether someone knows something about nutrition, and that's why I was disagreeing. I wasn't disagreeing with telling the OP to pay more attention to what they do eat rather than what they don't/can't.
I think you are reading way too much into what I said or just trying to find something to disagree with, as I really don't see any meaningful disagreement here.
Yes, as I said before, if someone claims that nutrition is all about not eating specific foods vs. what you actually do include in your diet, I see that as evidence that person doesn't know much about nutrition. You haven't said anything that would contradict this, btw.1
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