Human nature or not?

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  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    I’m curious if a woman would be perturbed by another woman glancing at her butt

    I can only speak for myself but for me, no. I'll just assume she's admiring my butt (unlikely) or my pants (more likely).

    It's entirely possible that looking at my butt is motivating her to get hers into the gym so it doesn't end up looking like mine, but I'd rather not know this :D
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    I’m curious if a woman would be perturbed by another woman glancing at her butt

    Everyone looks at my butt.
  • gothchiq
    gothchiq Posts: 4,590 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    I’m curious if a woman would be perturbed by another woman glancing at her butt

    As long as the expression on her face could be read as positive, it's all good to me.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    I’m curious if a woman would be perturbed by another woman glancing at her butt

    Everyone looks at my butt.

    #truth

    I be like... She must workout 😏
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    I used to look at other women and compare myself to them, and it made me feel pretty grim. It was plain jealousy on my behalf that they looked better than I thought I did.
    As I've got older, and focused more on my health, I just appreciate people's beauty for what it is. If they've worked hard and are rocking some muscles, I'll appreciate them harder. Humans are pretty.
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    edited February 2020
    @bojack5

    this exactly: can appreciate others attributes with no emotion attached

    regarding the topic of family - i think it's natural to feel that way if it's not something you had.



  • MrAcavano
    MrAcavano Posts: 197 Member
    I wish I did. Instead I compare myself to an unattainable ideal that changes rapidly and can never be reached.
  • psychod787
    psychod787 Posts: 4,099 Member
    Yes, I think we are always sizing up potential rivals. Ladies do the same thing. I work with mostly women, and when a new gal joins us, they are all "sizing" her up.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Stopped comparing myself to other women years ago. I observe people when I have the luxury of just enjoying the ambience and view of wherever I am, so I have acknowledged perks other women/men may have. Oftentimes it merely spurs me on to workout or attend to my aging maintenance protocols a little more. The luxury I do have now though is age ... tweaking anything permanently through cosmetic surgeons is an option I can be privy to without a care, if I so choose in future.

    There just seems to be more attractive people out there now especially with cross cultural unions - so many unique beauties with natural features many go under the knife for. They are born looking close to perfect through my eyes. Therein lies the rub, my eyes . What is my ideal or perfect isn't necessarily your ideal or perfect. Neither is wrong or right. Merely adds to our uniqueness & flavours.

  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited February 2020
    No, I don’t compare myself, but I do notice others sometimes, especially if they are very beautiful, fit, stylish, etc. I guess that’s natural. I can appreciate beauty in others.
  • MarvinsAMartian
    MarvinsAMartian Posts: 236 Member
    Compare? No. Admire? Hell yes.

    Sometimes it's style. Sometimes it's genetics (like, damn that dude is tall). Sometimes it's obvious they work hard on their body/appearance. I can appreciate all that without looking down on myself because we're all different, and that's ok.
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    I do not compare myself with others. I have very high self esteem, so I have never felt the need to compare. I do look at others and am able to enjoy the views.
  • wwwtheselion11
    wwwtheselion11 Posts: 422 Member
    I don't compare my self, because I'm limited to what i can do. An usually others, are not in the Same situation as i am. Yes i might, ask someone there weight, an compared to my weight, but thats ,as far, i will goo to compare

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