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  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    When you ask - ‘does my butt look big in these jeans’ do you really want and honest answer or is it a test ??

    Seeing as I likely want a "butt boost" from the stuff I wear, I definitely need an honest opinion.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Do you like it when he picks on you?

    I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose

    If we are ripping on each other, then yes. Absolutely.
    Sometimes I will even volunteer a little bit of info just to see if he will run with it. :D
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    When you ask - ‘does my butt look big in these jeans’ do you really want and honest answer or is it a test ??

    I will never ever ask.
    If I think my butt doesn't look good in something, I won't wear it. lol
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    No question. How he treats wait staff and his mother are of utmost importance
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Do you like it when he picks on you?

    I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose

    Honestly.. its a dealbreaker if he doesn’t
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
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    tinak33 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    I notice all of it. If the wait staff is friendly and engaging, I crack jokes with them and stuff. If he is all stiff and whatever, I can't stand it. Also, is it so hard to say "thank you" when they refill your water glass? I mean, that's common courtesy, right? I notice that stuff immediately. If he can't be polite, courteous, and friendly, I'm not going out with him again.

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  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    When you ask - ‘does my butt look big in these jeans’ do you really want and honest answer or is it a test ??


    Honey we’ve selfied from every angle by then, we already know the answer
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
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    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.

    I like being ordered for 😬
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,060 Member
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    GettinLean19 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    When you ask - ‘does my butt look big in these jeans’ do you really want and honest answer or is it a test ??


    Honey we’ve selfied from every angle by then, we already know the answer

    So you wouldn’t ask ?? Or maybe I should rephrase - how bout If you ask - how do I look ... what if you just ain’t looking that good - do you want honest feed back or reassurance of ‘baby you look beautiful in anything’
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,060 Member
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    GettinLean19 wrote: »
    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.

    I like being ordered for 😬

    Like without discussion? Like he just picks and you eat or you’ve discussed, told him what you want and he orders ?
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    GettinLean19 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    When you ask - ‘does my butt look big in these jeans’ do you really want and honest answer or is it a test ??


    Honey we’ve selfied from every angle by then, we already know the answer

    So you wouldn’t ask ?? Or maybe I should rephrase - how bout If you ask - how do I look ... what if you just ain’t looking that good - do you want honest feed back or reassurance of ‘baby you look beautiful in anything’

    I never ask a question seeking a pat answer. If i ask, it’s because i want to know. But I’ve had friends complain to me about their SO’s honesty so I can’t speak for other women.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    GettinLean19 wrote: »
    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.

    I like being ordered for 😬

    Perfect... I like to order 😏
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    GettinLean19 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Do you like it when he picks on you?

    I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose

    Honestly.. its a dealbreaker if he doesn’t
    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Do you like it when he picks on you?

    I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose

    I do, as long as it's established as being in fun. One of those vibe things I guess.
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Do you like it when he picks on you?

    I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose

    If we are ripping on each other, then yes. Absolutely.
    Sometimes I will even volunteer a little bit of info just to see if he will run with it. :D

    I'm not sure why this is but teasing is just something that kind of bonds... Maybe it's a way of saying, I find your annoyances adorable 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    There's just something about people who can laugh things off I guess...
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    GettinLean19 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    When you ask - ‘does my butt look big in these jeans’ do you really want and honest answer or is it a test ??


    Honey we’ve selfied from every angle by then, we already know the answer

    So you wouldn’t ask ?? Or maybe I should rephrase - how bout If you ask - how do I look ... what if you just ain’t looking that good - do you want honest feed back or reassurance of ‘baby you look beautiful in anything’

    If I ask, I want the honest answer. Not the "you look beautiful in anything". Regardless of how many times he says that IS his honest answer.... lol
    Be specific, too.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies of mfp

    How do you feel about traditional gender roles - should the man pay for everything all the time ? Should it be a 50/50 split -

    I have done both. It really doesn't gnaw on me either way.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    What are some of the ways you'll test a guy to see if he's interested?

    I haven't actually needed to test a guy to gauge interest. A man is either interested and tells me or he isn't and doesn't.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,060 Member
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    GettinLean19 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    GettinLean19 wrote: »
    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.

    I like being ordered for 😬

    Like without discussion? Like he just picks and you eat or you’ve discussed, told him what you want and he orders ?

    I think its sexy to see what he does with that kind of freedom. I’ve had a guy order me raw oysters and then he made an absurd amount of eye contact while he told me to swallow them down whole. Hope I’m not setting back feminism a thousand years but i was so there for it

    That being said - to the ladies who don’t like it - if the dude overall seems like a good dude but makes this mistake once. Does he get a mulligan (golf term for do over ) or is it a complete deal breaker if he does it once - cause i kinda want to pull this trick out just for funnsies to see what happens ?? 🤔
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies of mfp

    How do you feel about traditional gender roles - should the man pay for everything all the time ? Should it be a 50/50 split -

    I dont mind paying sometimes but the first few dates I expect him to pay.

    My two cents....

    Women spend a lot of money on clothes, cosmetics, haircare etc.

    The cost of a night out should be the guys responsibility & the expenses of dating kind of even out in the end.

    What a sweetheart you are Motorsheen, behind your prankster exterior. ;)

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