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Dating While Heavy

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  • MISSNYA92
    MISSNYA92 Posts: 36 Member
    Girl I know how you feel!

    I need to lose 25lbs right now and after a recent breakup and all the verbal abuse I’ve suffered, I literally feel ugly and fat. I am not in a position to date someone else right now because I need to learn to love myself again.

    I suggest you do the same hun. I’m taking time for myself to focus on my health and well being. Eating healthier, being more active, praying/meditating, spending time with family, reading books I never had the time to read and learning to accept myself.

    Hey, I'm sorry for your loss. Toxic relationships and bad breakups are the worst! I've been single for a bit, I'm in school, recently moved... I definitely more myself than ever on the inside. I'm extremely decisive, and these are the reasons why my standards/expectations are higher than ever. I know the way I want to be treated and I have dreams that I want to share with a partner and ultimately a family. However, I'll be 28 in June. The reality of online dating is that I'm in a pool of women including IG models lol... that's just not feasible... not even at a smaller size!
    I guess, my frustration is with the pressure to either step up my game and lose the weight, or lower my standards.
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