When you lose weight do others ask about your partner's health jouney

mkprettyme83

Hello I have been on my weight loss journey 18 months. I started out weighing 280, i am currently 198. Finally under 200. My man is heavy set but I love every pound of him lol. However when ppl approach me they always ask "how is he doing on his journey?" The thing is I never mentioned that he is trying to lose weight. Are they trying to be funny and mean or what?

snowflake954

I'd say just clueless. Maybe they know how close you are and do everything together. I congratulate you on your loss. I'd just say "He's doing fine, thank you for asking", and change the subject.