GET RICH QUICK!
KickassAmazon76
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This is an analogy I shared years ago under a different username. I wanted to resurrect it for all the newcomers who have decided to change their stars for 2021.
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What if you had to choose between the following:
OPTION 1) Get rich quick, but spend all the money and be poor again, just as quickly - possibly even poorer than you started
or
OPTION 2) Take some time, earn your wealth, and learn how to preserve it.
Which would you pick?
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It seems pretty obvious to me, which option is better. I want a lasting wealth... even if it means I have to work for it. I don't want a flash in the pan that disappears in a heartbeat - potentially leaving me scarred in the process... I want something sustainable. Something lasting. Something I can pass on to my kids after I am gone.
And yet - so many topics on this site are focused on helping people achieve OPTION 1... some VLCDs, cleanses, fad diets, starvation and the like - abound a plenty.
So many people seem to think that they'll be the exception to the rule - that they'll lose weight super fast, turn into this low fat, ripped, amazing sexy creature, and keep that body for EVERRRRR.... and yet they don't learn the proper tools to preserve the wealth they achieve (if they even achieve it in the first place!)
And it's kinda ridiculous.
Take this thread as an encouragement - you didn't gain weight overnight...
YOU DON'T HAVE TO LOSE IT OVERNIGHT!
I challenge you to ALLOW YOURSELF...
- GRACE to lose weight slowly. Adjust your timelines to allow yourself time to change the way you approach food.
- ROOM to make mistakes... no one can do this perfectly! You will have days where you feel like you have failed. It is OK. Just keep trying.
- FREEDOM to have those foods you feel you cannot live without. Find a way to fit an occasional treat into your life
- PERMISSION to love yourself as you are, knowing that you are working towards being healthier.
- REALISM... set realistic goals for what you want to look like... recognize your body type and see what thinner versions of those body types look like. (If you have a massive chest, you likely won't look like Kate Hudson when you lose your weight!)
Too many times I see people hate themselves into losing weight, and they do WHATEVER IS NECESSARY to get to their goal as fast as possible... and too many times I see them on the side of the road with their head between their knees... broken because they feel like they've failed.
Train for your marathon... you don't have to run it the first time you lace up your shoes...
*********************
What if you had to choose between the following:
OPTION 1) Get rich quick, but spend all the money and be poor again, just as quickly - possibly even poorer than you started
or
OPTION 2) Take some time, earn your wealth, and learn how to preserve it.
Which would you pick?
*****
It seems pretty obvious to me, which option is better. I want a lasting wealth... even if it means I have to work for it. I don't want a flash in the pan that disappears in a heartbeat - potentially leaving me scarred in the process... I want something sustainable. Something lasting. Something I can pass on to my kids after I am gone.
And yet - so many topics on this site are focused on helping people achieve OPTION 1... some VLCDs, cleanses, fad diets, starvation and the like - abound a plenty.
So many people seem to think that they'll be the exception to the rule - that they'll lose weight super fast, turn into this low fat, ripped, amazing sexy creature, and keep that body for EVERRRRR.... and yet they don't learn the proper tools to preserve the wealth they achieve (if they even achieve it in the first place!)
And it's kinda ridiculous.
Take this thread as an encouragement - you didn't gain weight overnight...
YOU DON'T HAVE TO LOSE IT OVERNIGHT!
I challenge you to ALLOW YOURSELF...
- GRACE to lose weight slowly. Adjust your timelines to allow yourself time to change the way you approach food.
- ROOM to make mistakes... no one can do this perfectly! You will have days where you feel like you have failed. It is OK. Just keep trying.
- FREEDOM to have those foods you feel you cannot live without. Find a way to fit an occasional treat into your life
- PERMISSION to love yourself as you are, knowing that you are working towards being healthier.
- REALISM... set realistic goals for what you want to look like... recognize your body type and see what thinner versions of those body types look like. (If you have a massive chest, you likely won't look like Kate Hudson when you lose your weight!)
Too many times I see people hate themselves into losing weight, and they do WHATEVER IS NECESSARY to get to their goal as fast as possible... and too many times I see them on the side of the road with their head between their knees... broken because they feel like they've failed.
Train for your marathon... you don't have to run it the first time you lace up your shoes...
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Lots of words. I'm bad for that. Sorry. 🤪3
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Why the apology? I read this earlier today and bookmarked the thread. This is one of those topics where one needs a reminder/refresher/analogy every now and again.
You nailed it!2 -
I remember the last time you posted this. Good stuff!2
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quiksylver296 wrote: »I remember the last time you posted this. Good stuff!
Thank you!! ❤️
Hard to believe that was in 2014, hey?1 -
KickassAmazon76 wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »I remember the last time you posted this. Good stuff!
Thank you!! ❤️
Hard to believe that was in 2014, hey?
Jeez, we’re old. 😂😉2 -
This is a great analogy, definitely nothing to apologize for!
(Gotta say, though, while we're not talking about mega-wealth in play in this case, I saw some of my work colleagues treat financial planning more like option 1, rather than option 2, so I don't think short-sighted choices are limited to weight management! 😬)1 -
I mean... Don't get me wrong... I'd love to get rich quick... But if I don't have the supports in place, I'd probably blow it on gym equipment, and chocolate bars. Haha3
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I remember this!!!!!
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