Surviving Toxic love ...

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  • leviathan55
    leviathan55 Posts: 25 Member
    Based in my observations, people get into those kind of relationships because they are unconsciously trying to fill a personality void. My advise: learn to live by yourself (meaning: learn to be alone with your thoughts and face them). People tend to use relationships as a crutch when something is missing. Know yourself first before getting involved. Believe me you'll spot trouble a mile away!
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Arc2Arc wrote: »
    [ And eros can only last so long.


    Long Enough.....


    That is, until the restraining order is issued and the Uber pulls away.
  • Hiawassee88
    Hiawassee88 Posts: 35,754 Member
    You've been given some really great advice.

    Don't start none. Won't be none.
    I know myself. If you should find yourself leaning upon the opinion poll of others you can end up in a bad place. Wear what makes you happy and eat the foods you really enjoy. Take full responsibility for everything and make all of your own decisions.

    Learn to trust your instincts. If someone diminishes your personality you are with the wrong person. When they analyze and try to shrink you into tatters and shreds...run like hail. Judging every move you make and every breath you take is cuckoo. If you can't make the simple decisions without wanting someone to breathe down your neck it's better to be alone. Wait for the road that leads to compassion, accountability and celebrating individuality which runs both directions.

    Hold space for healthy communication and never ever let anyone shrink you into thinking inside their box. There is no box.

  • Singing_Banshee
    Singing_Banshee Posts: 44 Member
    Well done you guys that seen it was toxic and escaped the situation then trying to help others that don’t know what is going on or what to do 👏🏻

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