Cuddling with Friends of the Opposite Sex

veggiehottie

Hi Guys!

I am great friends with this guy. I do have romantic feelings for him, but for different reasons we have kept the friendship platonic.

About 3 weeks ago we cuddled on the beach one night because it was cold. The Friday after that, and then again this Friday, we cuddled in his bed. Not just sleeping next to each other - we are talking his arms around me all night, spooning, massage, etc. HOWEVER there was no kissing or sex involved.

Have you guys ever done this? I am just confused because I have never had a friend cuddle with me before. Cuddling for me was always something pretty intimate. Help!

veggiehottie

bump

veggiehottie

Bump

araromi2

I did and I wish I hadn't. It just made things weird between us...esp when he started dating someone.

SweetMegz04

I did and that relationship went on for just under a year.. I was there during the week and every weekend.
a relationship really without being told it was one or the sex/kissing..

Then he began dating someone and still proceeded to reach out after avoiding me cause "I liked him more than he liked me" yet I never said anything of the sort of "liking him" and all the times I went over, I was invited by him...

fast forward three years later- we stopped being friends, his the gf who hates me is now the fiancé and he randomly friended me back on fb after my deleting him.

I lost a best friend because of the confusion obviously on both ends.