Women with 200lb+ to lose?

I'm 38 and looking for friends with similar goals. I need to lose over 200lb, and I need to finally get started on that NOW and be consistent.

Would love to find some female friends (cis female or LGBTQA+ identifying women/people who feel safer with female friends). I tend to be very positive when things are going well, but hide a little when I mess up, so friends willing to nudge me back on track and happy to have me do the same for them, would be amazing!

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