Need all the motivation I can get

Hi , I'm Victoria 47 in menopause and need to lose in excess of 50lbs realistically if I'm honest with myself. Please feel free to add me. The more support we can all give each other surely is going to make 2023 the year we finally do it. I've been saying "this year I'll lose the weight" for 23 years ! Need to do it now and would love if you can help me and I will help you as much as I can x