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My problems started when I was between five and seven. When I was younger everyone said I had puppy fat and I would grow out of it - I didn't. By my teens I had a serious weight problem.

People blame parents but my mum did everything she could she could to control my weight.

I was very good at convincing myself and others that I wasn't eating very much. I would skip breakfast and lunch but make up for it at dinner. Sometimes I would secretly eat through the night.

My mum would give me a good dinner because I said I hadn't eaten all day. She didn't want me to over eat but she didn't want me go without either:smile:

Do you think I have to talk to my mom about this? will I make him sad if I refuse to follow her?