Dating between decades: how old is too old?

Fayve

My husband is 33, and I'm 20. It's difficult, but doable. Just be careful!

Mrsallypants

TammyW18

...you forgot to mention that he's also a rock star, astronaut, and a french model.

It must be true if you read it on the internet!

^ words to live by.

All the above

TammyW18

Oh she deactivated her account

BeachIron

In for plastic surgeons who have enough time on their hands to be personal trainers and DJs while owning a night club, and dating an 18 year old.

Okay, the dating the 18 year old I could believe.

NC_Sean

Made my night. Now let's watch some football.

Nissi51

sketchy

Kiyalynn

I thought I would post something for the relationship. Since everyone here seams to be dissing even the Idea.

I met my husband over a Online video game. In 2006. I was 18. We were friends for two years, during that time, I moved out of my parents, got my own apartment, worked a factory Job, Payed for college on my own, I was a responsible adult. During our friendship, I learned he was a game developer, designing video games for a living, but had spent many years trying to follow a dream he once had to be a Writer. He had postponed getting a girlfriend until he was financially stable enough to afford one, and the family he wanted. Despite the fact that he IS 19 years older than I am, and that my parents didn't like the idea. We started Dating Online soon after I turned 20. A few plane trips, over a 1000 mile gap; and a move that far, We were married just after my 21's birthday... and just before his 40th.... That was 4 years ago. During that time, My husband has continued to Work on Video games, FROM HOME. I have been a stay at home wife during that time, waiting for my children. I have spent the last 5 years, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, with my husband. During that time, we have lost one baby, and struggled to conceive again... Even though THAT sorrow and hardship, there is one thing that stands out; I have never been happier.

Age is just a number. What matters is weather or not he makes you happy.
True, a relationship like this may shatter and burn... But can't any?
ANY relationship has the potential to be good or bad.

bloominheck

I agree with the other posters that something doesn't smell right with this guy. He has too many "glamorous" and demanding jobs.

That said, I married a 30 year old man when I was 18. I was madly in love with him and we had 3 kids together. And guess what? It ended badly. Very badly. Cops and restraining orders badly. I hate to say this, but a man of that age who is interested in a girl your age may very well have some serious issues. My ex-husband continues to date women far younger than him. He does it because a much younger woman is easier to *control*.

You're an adult. You can do whatever you want. But take things slow and be really careful.

ETA: I'm going to go take a Crying Game shower now. I feel so dirty for feeding the troll.

I agree, I think we fed a troll. Now it will never go away.

Dang it. I didn't catch it. You both are right. Troll

Back to the Ravens.......(hate Broncos)

JoQuinn523

Crazy coincidence, my boyfriend is also a plastic surgeon/nightclub owner, but HE's 18 and I'M 32! Maybe we should switch boyfriends!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

vienna_h

He's 32, a plastic surgeon, a DJ. owns a night club, and picks up 18 year old girls? ETA: And a personal trainer, duh, how could I forget!

I've read enough. You're parents are right. Focus on school for a while.

BrainyBurro

Back to the Ravens.......(hate Broncos)

Monkey_Business

...you forgot to mention that he's also a rock star, astronaut, and a french model.

Did you meet him on the internet? :huh:

seltzermint555

This is super funny.

If the guy is real tell him your new friend seltzermint on MFP wants a couple grand for her birthday and if he knows David Guetta or anyone in Phoenix they can play at my party also.

K thanks!!

digitalbill

...you forgot to mention that he's also a rock star, astronaut, and a french model.

Bon jore.....