How do you decide a maintenance goal?

kathic55

To be honest, I never thought I’d ask this question. I’ve been overweight all my life always aiming for more more more wait to lose. I’ve lost 50 pounds this past year. I know I have more to lose, but how much is more? How do you get satisfied With your weight when I’ve been struggling my entire life and how do you decide what that number is? I have a doctors appointment tomorrow and I’m going to be asking her the same questions but I’d like some real life experience.

cmriverside

Here is the calculator your doctor will likely use to calculate your current Body Mass Index.

https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educational/lose_wt/BMI/bmicalc.htm

It will show you the range.

You can also Google "BMI Chart Images" and look at charts of healthy weights for your height.

Other than that - it's about personal preference and your health and to some degree it's about what you can personally maintain within the healthy range. I feel best at 21-22 BMI, and my Maintenance weight is a five pound up-or-down range I try to stay within. I can maintain it fairly easily, but there is about a 35 pound range within which I would be considered to be in a healthy weight range by the BMI chart - anywhere from 120 lbs. to 155 lbs.

AnnPT77

Honestly, I don't think it's worth worrying about in advance, when there's still some good bit left to lose.

Yes, MFP asks for a goal weight, but what you input there doesn't affect your calorie goal or anything about the weight loss process along the way. The process is the same, regardless of goal weight.

Goal weight only matters when we reach the point where we want to stop losing . . . and that's way, way easier to evaluate when we get at least close to that point. I think that's especially true when we've had excess weight for a long time - I was overweight to obese for around 30 years before losing down to a healthy weight myself 8 years ago.

I had some vague ideas about a goal weight, based on a weight I'd been in college (1970s!). However, "everyone said" we should be a little heavier when older, so I picked a little higher number. When I got close to that weight, I could see it wasn't right. I changed my mind a couple more times. Somewhere in there, I developed some theories - trying to be realistic - about how I wanted to feel and look, fairly specific criteria that would help me know when I reached goal. I literally woke up one morning, thought about it, and decided to go to maintenance calories.

As long as you don't have a severely distorted body image, you'll recognize when you're getting close to where you want to be, and you can recognize it when you get there. There may still be some things you want to work on at that point, exercise-wise; and loose skin IME keeps shrinking for a long time even after goal weight is reached.

I'd also say this: Goal weight isn't something that can't change. It's not necessary to invest a lot of emotional energy in it in advance, or even when near to it. You can change your mind literally at any point. If you decide you've reached a good weight, maintain it for a while, then decide you want to lose a little more . . . you know how to lose weight, obviously, right? On the flip side, if you reach goal then over time decide you'd be happier with a bit more body weight, or find it easier to maintain weight on slightly higher calories . . . you can do that, too.

For now, sure, do talk with your doctor. (Mine just said to aim for the healthy BMI range, which is a huge range!) But don't agonize about it, just pick an approximate number, and revise if/as needed as you go along. That'll work fine.

Best wishes!