New Week's Resolution - Week 14 (Jan 20 - 26)

nossmf
nossmf Posts: 12,604 Member
Welcome to the first week of the rest of your life! Now seems like a perfect time to select a New Week's Resolution.

What is a New Week's Resolution? It's exactly the same as a New Year's Resolution, with two important distinctions: it only lasts for one week, and you can start one any time you want, rather than just once per year.

So what's wrong with New Year's Resolutions? According to some quick Google research, just one thing: they DON'T WORK!
  • 23% of people quit within the first week
  • 43% quit by the end of January
  • 80% quit by mid-February
  • 92% fail to make it a full year
Why such high rates of failure? Probably because most resolutions fail to follow these simple steps from the SMART method:
  • Specific - "exercise more" is vague; "hit the gym twice this week" is specific
  • Measurable - did I go twice? Yes or no?
  • Achievable - "drink a gallon of water per day" may not be realistic; drink 8oz is
  • Relevant - if it doesn't matter to YOU, why bother?
  • Time-bound - keep your goal for this week something quick you can reach THIS week
With these thoughts in mind, what is ONE thing you want to do this week? Some examples may include:
  • Hit the gym two times this week
  • Cook a meal from scratch three times this week
  • Go to bed no later than 10pm every night
  • Limit myself to one alcoholic beverage this week
  • Finish two pages of my family photo album
...and so on. While this is very similar in nature to the famous "Just Give Me 10 Days" series, that challenge focuses primarily on weight loss and diet control, whereas this challenge is of a broader nature, including interpersonal relationships, home improvements, health and fitness and more. Just pick something specific you wish to focus upon, set a number goal you can reach (or not), and make status updates to document your progress. This will be a judgment-free zone: if you do not reach your goal, take the time to figure out why not (too big a goal, life happened, etc), and forgive yourself, because you can always try again next week.

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  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 12,604 Member
    Getting setup for this week. My plan is to continue what I started in previous weeks, and add one more focus item every week as I go. Eventually older items will drop off the list, not because I no longer want to do them, but because they will have become so ingrained a part of my daily routine that I no longer need to record them to make sure they get done.

    Past focus items successfully transitioned to un-monitored habit:
    Floss every night before bed
    Clean litter box every night before bed
    Kiss wife within one (1) minute of arriving home from work, gym, store, church, etc
    Wearing my glasses every day, all day
    Park in furthest spot available
    Read 10 minutes daily
    Complete digital cookbook

    Ongoing focus items:
    Get at least six hours of sleep every night
    Wash dinner dishes the same night they're used
    Shave daily

    New focus item: Not a new item, rather a re-focus upon getting enough sleep at night. My first week back to work after the holidays I passed the 6-hr mark all but one night; this past week I was only successful on two of the five work nights. Need to do better.
  • AdahPotatah2024
    AdahPotatah2024 Posts: 2,628 Member
    Ongoing focus items:
    Waste less than an hour on the youtube/internet on workdays (so I have time for my hobbies)
    Post one item per wk in my Etsy shop
    30 minutes learning ASL every weekday
    Get back to my regular sleep patterns! Awake by 5am!
    ❌️for today...😴 again!
    This week:
    Try to drive as minimal as possible. Plan errands more efficiently!
  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 12,604 Member
    Monday

    Sleep...check!
    Dishes...check!
    Shave...oops...
  • AdahPotatah2024
    AdahPotatah2024 Posts: 2,628 Member
    This week:
    Try to drive as minimal as possible. Plan errands more efficiently!
    ✔️
    I picked the right week for this challenge as the roads are too icy to drive for a few days!
  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 12,604 Member
    Monday

    Sleep...nope
    Dishes...nope
    Shave...nope

    Had to take wife to ER last night. She's fine, but didn't get home until late, so the entire evening was thrown out the window.
  • Corina1143
    Corina1143 Posts: 4,074 Member
    Last couple of days 0/6
    Last night in bed on time. Today ate under tdee, plenty of protein. Up at 4 the first time, 11 the second time. Really woke up around 2pm.

    Nossmf, I think you are forgiven for emergencies. Hope your wife is okay.
  • AdahPotatah2024
    AdahPotatah2024 Posts: 2,628 Member
    Agreed!:) Hope all is well.

    ✔️ for not driving at all. our roads still icy... might drive this afternoon for a coffee date and get groceries on the way back, though...
  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 12,604 Member
    Wednesday

    Sleep...check!
    Dishes...check!
    Shave...check!

    Yes, my wife is fine now, thanks for the concern.
  • Corina1143
    Corina1143 Posts: 4,074 Member

    In bed by 12 - yes
    Up by 8 - yes
    Ready to go within 30 minutes - yes
    Under tdee - yes
    Over protein - yes
    Exercise - yes today. First day it was warm enough to get out.
    5 pounds up. Hopefully some water weight. In control now. (For a while)
  • AdahPotatah2024
    AdahPotatah2024 Posts: 2,628 Member
    ❌️ for today, but close. Woke up at 5:30am, a significant improvement:)
  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 12,604 Member
    Thursday

    Sleep...nope
    Dishes...check!
    Shave...nope

    Normally I work from home on Fridays, so Thursday night I have lots of time after church choir to get stuff done. But this week and next I have to be in the office, so early-to-bed creates a race to get stuff done after I get home. Not as successful as it could have been...
  • Corina1143
    Corina1143 Posts: 4,074 Member
    January 24
    In bed by 12 - yes
    Up by 8 - yes
    Ready to go within 30 minutes - yes
    Under tdee - yes
    Over protein - yes
    Exercise - none, but lots of running around.

  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 12,604 Member
    Friday

    Sleep...check!
    Dishes...check!
    Shave...nope
  • Corina1143
    Corina1143 Posts: 4,074 Member
    January 25
    In bed by 12 - yes
    Up by 8 - yes
    Ready to go within 30 minutes - yes
    Under tdee - yes, by 14 calories, lol
    Over protein - yes
    Exercise - none


  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 12,604 Member
    Saturday

    Sleep...check!
    Dishes...check!
    Shave...check!
  • Corina1143
    Corina1143 Posts: 4,074 Member
    January 26
    In bed by 12 - yes
    Up by 8 - yes
    Ready to go within 30 minutes - yes
    Under tdee - yes, just barely again. I think it's the cold weather. More coffee (with milk and maybe a snack)
    Over protein - yes
    Exercise - none