Crappy Feeling.

fitgirlandfoodie
fitgirlandfoodie Posts: 1,014 Member
in Motivation and Support
If things had worked out I'd have been getting engaged today. This is a **** feeling. Sigh..suppose if it wasn't meant to be..

*heads off to treadmill. :/

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  • Kirsten2304
    Kirsten2304 Posts: 27 Member
    I'm very sorry for you! What happened? :(
  • fitgirlandfoodie
    fitgirlandfoodie Posts: 1,014 Member
    Thanks hun. He dumped me over fb and hooked with a French girl a week or so later. I'm over that now..just today being the day we started to date and when he told me he would propose..well I guess it hurts.
  • Kirsten2304
    Kirsten2304 Posts: 27 Member
    Over fb? Oh. my. god.! :( How long have you been seeing each other? And when did that actually happen? I know that feeling of getting dumped and then seeing him with someone else shortly after. It is the most terrible thing. I hope you forget him quickly, because he is not worth the tears.
  • learnerdriver
    learnerdriver Posts: 298 Member
    gawd lazy idiot!! burn that treadmill!!!
  • fitgirlandfoodie
    fitgirlandfoodie Posts: 1,014 Member
    It happened in May (I know, it shouldn't bother me now and this stage) and we're still civil to each other..it's just I suppose I saw my life with him and today just magnifies that it's over. I'm trying not to be sorry for myself..it won't solve anything..just needed to say it (well type it) out loud. x
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    It happened in May (I know, it shouldn't bother me now and this stage) and we're still civil to each other..it's just I suppose I saw my life with him and today just magnifies that it's over. I'm trying not to be sorry for myself..it won't solve anything..just needed to say it (well type it) out loud. x

    you're still in contact with him!? wtf!?
  • fitgirlandfoodie
    fitgirlandfoodie Posts: 1,014 Member
    in contact..yup. Life (and emotion) is complicated like that.
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    MOVE ON!
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    in contact..yup. Life (and emotion) is complicated like that.

    if you have kids, then yes it is, if not, then its only as complicated as you make it... staying friends in the hope he'll change his mind wont work!
  • whizzlers
    whizzlers Posts: 101 Member
    Oh rubbish hun!
    Take all the feelings you have and work it out on the treadmill! It will make you feel better :) Keep smiling xx
  • Kirsten2304
    Kirsten2304 Posts: 27 Member
    I know, easy to say, but trust me - you will find someone who treats you respectfully and who won't feel the need to look for other women. Maybe it is better that it happened in May and not at a time when you had already been married to him.
  • Lizzy622
    Lizzy622 Posts: 3,705 Member
    Get even. Get healthy and sexy and make him regret dumping you. Then find a hot rich guy who will worship you.
  • lilbearzmom
    lilbearzmom Posts: 600 Member
    I personally think you dodged a major bullet there. It wasn't meant to be and you will likely be better for it. Time heals. Good luck!
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  • Lupercalia
    Lupercalia Posts: 1,857 Member
    I personally think you dodged a major bullet there. It wasn't meant to be and you will likely be better for it. Time heals. Good luck!

    This! Better to find out someone you're considering spending your life with is a complete *kitten* up front, rather than after the fact. If you don't have children with the guy, or a business, I'd recommend distancing yourself from him for your own emotional health. Best wishes. :flowerforyou:
  • thepetiterunner
    thepetiterunner Posts: 1,238 Member
    Thanks hun. He dumped me over fb and hooked with a French girl a week or so later. I'm over that now..just today being the day we started to date and when he told me he would propose..well I guess it hurts.

    Good god. This reminds me of the Sex & the City episode where Carrie gets dumped over a post-it... but I digress.

    I think you dodged a HUGE bullet right there. I think you're pouring lemon juice in a paper cut by continuing to be in contact with him, but it's your paper cut.

    Use this to fuel your workouts. The best revenge is happiness - TRUE happiness.
  • fitgirlandfoodie
    fitgirlandfoodie Posts: 1,014 Member
    Thank you to everyone for replying..firstly just to clarify, I have no desire to get back with him. It was more the fact that I was feeling..not exactly nostalgic, but just pensive. We're civil, because I believe that life is too short to hold grudges and anger will only be detrimental to myself. Lots of plans made today though with friends- gonna be doing the Dublin marathon next year :-) Again, thank you all :-) xx

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