Interracial relationship views

BaconSlanger

I don't know if it is just where I live or what, but I get the weirdest looks from people sometimes when I am with my boyfriend. He is Korean while I am white. I have dated a Hispanic before and no one would even bat an eye. I guess maybe because where I am living (Texas) you don't see too many people from the Asian descent? I don't know. I was just wondering what y'all's thoughts on it were. It's interesting to me to hear people's views. I honestly do not care where the person comes from, or looks, just as long as I am happy - and I am so very happy and in love.

whierd

How dare you take all of our white women!

BaconSlanger

How dare you take all of our white women!

bawhahahaa, you are hilarious dude

ldrosophila

one word...texas

btw although an innocent post you are going to twist some sensitive nelly panties

randomtai

I don't know if it is just where I live or what, but I get the weirdest looks from people sometimes when I am with my boyfriend. He is Korean while I am white. I have dated a Hispanic before and no one would even bat an eye. I guess maybe because where I am living (Texas) you don't see too many people from the Asian descent? I don't know. I was just wondering what y'all's thoughts on it were. It's interesting to me to hear people's views. I honestly do not care where the person comes from, or looks, just as long as I am happy - and I am so very happy and in love.

I am dating an Asian man as well and I know the feeling. Just roll with it and pretend its paparazzi :laugh:

Cliffslosinit

I could give 2 sh!ts less less what people do or what color the person is their doing!
Taste the rainbow!!

whierd

I don't know if it is just where I live or what, but I get the weirdest looks from people sometimes when I am with my boyfriend. He is Korean while I am white. I have dated a Hispanic before and no one would even bat an eye. I guess maybe because where I am living (Texas) you don't see too many people from the Asian descent? I don't know. I was just wondering what y'all's thoughts on it were. It's interesting to me to hear people's views. I honestly do not care where the person comes from, or looks, just as long as I am happy - and I am so very happy and in love.

I am dating an Asian man as well and I know the feeling. Just roll with it and pretend its paparazzi :laugh:

OMG, you too?!!?

First interracial dating. What is next? This?!

just_Jennie1

one word...texas

btw although an innocent post you are going to twist some sensitive nelly panties

^^ Yup.

With that said, I really don't give a crap who dates who. I really don't. I might look at you in public because in all honesty if we see an Asian person we expect their partner to be the same and when it's not the mind, for a second, does not compute. I might look then when the mind says "Oh. Ok. Asian dude. White chick." I'll move on and not really give another thought to it.

I just honestly don't care. If someone is in love and they're being treated right why should I give a hoot what color (or sex for that matter) their partner is?

Keiras_Mom

My BFF is biracial Japanese/Caucasian. Nobody ever bats an eye when we're together unless we go to a Chinese restaurant. I swear, every time we go to a Chinese restaurant, people give us strange looks. It's really weird.

randomtai

I don't know if it is just where I live or what, but I get the weirdest looks from people sometimes when I am with my boyfriend. He is Korean while I am white. I have dated a Hispanic before and no one would even bat an eye. I guess maybe because where I am living (Texas) you don't see too many people from the Asian descent? I don't know. I was just wondering what y'all's thoughts on it were. It's interesting to me to hear people's views. I honestly do not care where the person comes from, or looks, just as long as I am happy - and I am so very happy and in love.

I am dating an Asian man as well and I know the feeling. Just roll with it and pretend its paparazzi :laugh:

OMG, you too?!!?

First interracial dating. Then the gays. What is next? This?!

That sir, is just entirely too far. :laugh:

BaconSlanger

Cool, everyone has awesome inputs!! It's also cool to hear from other girls with the same thing. I always thought maybe I had a booger on my face or something, bawhahaha.

Everyone is so awesome here at MFP. Y'all are great lol.

BaconSlanger

I don't know if it is just where I live or what, but I get the weirdest looks from people sometimes when I am with my boyfriend. He is Korean while I am white. I have dated a Hispanic before and no one would even bat an eye. I guess maybe because where I am living (Texas) you don't see too many people from the Asian descent? I don't know. I was just wondering what y'all's thoughts on it were. It's interesting to me to hear people's views. I honestly do not care where the person comes from, or looks, just as long as I am happy - and I am so very happy and in love.

I am dating an Asian man as well and I know the feeling. Just roll with it and pretend its paparazzi :laugh:

OMG, you too?!!?

First interracial dating. Then the gays. What is next? This?!

omg dude, bawhahah. this is too far!!

randomtai

I might look at you in public because in all honesty if we see an Asian person we expect their partner to be the same and when it's not the mind, for a second, does not compute. I might look then when the mind says "Oh. Ok. Asian dude. White chick." I'll move on and not really give another thought to it.

I just honestly don't care. If someone is in love and they're being treated right why should I give a hoot what color (or sex for that matter) their partner is?

I think that's the look OP is talking about. Some look longer than others and I live in NYC where you should least expect it lmao. :laugh:

anemoneprose

Thoughts on what? If the environment you're in is leading you to seek justification for your relationship on MFP, my thought is, you should move.

salladeve

Maybe their thinking you two make a cute couple

Naomi0504

I don't think its a big deal at all My dad is black, mom is white, and they got a lot of crazy looks too. My husband is white and I don't even notice if anyone cares or not

just_Jennie1

I might look at you in public because in all honesty if we see an Asian person we expect their partner to be the same and when it's not the mind, for a second, does not compute. I might look then when the mind says "Oh. Ok. Asian dude. White chick." I'll move on and not really give another thought to it.

I just honestly don't care. If someone is in love and they're being treated right why should I give a hoot what color (or sex for that matter) their partner is?

I think that's the look OP is talking about. Some look longer than others and I live in NYC where you should least expect it lmao. :laugh:

NYC? We're neighbors!! I'm in CT. Don't visit the city as much as I"d like to though.

Anywho when I look it's not a malicious "OMG! I can't believe that's an interracial couple!!" It's more of a "Huh? Oh. Ok. Cool." LOL

BaconSlanger

Thoughts on what? If the environment you're in is leading you to seek justification for your relationship on MFP, my thought is, you should move.

I'm not trying to seek justification. I'm not changing a damn thing on my side. Like I said in my post, I like to just see how people view different things. Everyone is different. It was just a curious thought I had for the day is all.

whierd

It's like you people don't even care what this will do to society!!!

BaconSlanger

Maybe their thinking you two make a cute couple

Best comment ever! lol

just_Jennie1

I don't know if it is just where I live or what, but I get the weirdest looks from people sometimes when I am with my boyfriend. He is Korean while I am white. I have dated a Hispanic before and no one would even bat an eye. I guess maybe because where I am living (Texas) you don't see too many people from the Asian descent? I don't know. I was just wondering what y'all's thoughts on it were. It's interesting to me to hear people's views. I honestly do not care where the person comes from, or looks, just as long as I am happy - and I am so very happy and in love.

I am dating an Asian man as well and I know the feeling. Just roll with it and pretend its paparazzi :laugh:

OMG, you too?!!?

First interracial dating. Then the gays. What is next? This?!

OMG! What is the world coming to when dogs and cats are sleeping together!!!?!?

Reminds me of my old dog and our cats. They played like they hated each other (actually they played tag and for whatever reason the front porch was "goal" and the dog wouldn't touch the cats there). But we would come home and see the dog and the two cats sleeping under the car and as soon as we drove up they'd jump away and look around like "What? What's up? Nothing was going on here." LMAO!

iamanadult

Korean is basically Caucasian.

Laces_0ut

lol @ Texas and other southern states. they just cant let the racism go.

for example this Georgia town that had their first integrated prom in 2013!!!!

"Fast forward to today, and here I am heading three hours down the highway from Atlanta to Wilcox County, Ga., where students there are holding their first integrated prom."


do your best to ignore them.

BaconSlanger

Korean is basically Caucasian.

lmfao, what?

dbmata

I don't know if it is just where I live or what, but I get the weirdest looks from people sometimes when I am with my boyfriend. He is Korean while I am white. I have dated a Hispanic before and no one would even bat an eye. I guess maybe because where I am living (Texas) you don't see too many people from the Asian descent? I don't know. I was just wondering what y'all's thoughts on it were. It's interesting to me to hear people's views. I honestly do not care where the person comes from, or looks, just as long as I am happy - and I am so very happy and in love.

I stuck a knife in a man's crotch in Bradenton, FL because he commented about how my wife was the right color to be his maid.

Lot of people have views on it when they aren't qualified for the commentary. Screw em. What is good for you is all that matters.

_EndGame_

Why would you care?

To be honest, even if somebody did have a problem with it on here, it's not like they're going to admit it.

Not even racists like being called a racist.

BaconSlanger

lol @ Texas and other southern states. they just cant let the racism go.

for example this Georgia town that had their first integrated prom in 2013!!!!

"Fast forward to today, and here I am heading three hours down the highway from Atlanta to Wilcox County, Ga., where students there are holding their first integrated prom."


do your best to ignore them.

WOW! That is soooo crazy, so sad too. That's terrible. These southern states man. >< It's crazy haha

chloecats

I think it's a bit cruel to any children a couple might have, but that depends on where the person is and how integrated into one culture or another both parents are.

HealthWoke0ish

Interracial relationships...are awesome.

Sovictorrious

How dare you take all of our white women!

In for the white men!!!

BaconSlanger

Why would you care?

To be honest, even if somebody did have a problem with it on here, it's not like they're going to admit it.

Not even racists like being called a racist.

Very good point sir. Very good.

And I only care because I like to hear what people say and pick at their brain at how they think. That's all. Lots of psychology classes and stuff like that.