What is my Ex trying to do

Cardinalsfan145 · October 2013

Forgive my terrible punucation I do have a small learning disability and it never been my strong point anyway. Here we go-> So me and my ex GF broke up last October backtrack we had known each other eight years and I went to prom with her her senior year of HS we always liked each other but didn't confess our feelings for one another until that night. Anyway we ended up dating for six months and then broke up it just didn't work out.

Well we had slowly started talking again just as friends nothing more but it was slow talk not much of it. Anyway I had posted a status on Facebook saying thank god the cardinals won that game before I had a heart attack.

She said don't say that I'd miss you way too much if you had a heart attack.

I said LOL (: thanks I'd think I would miss you to if I had one.

Then she did something that took me off guard.

She wrote on my sister Facebook Wall Hey Emily how are you?

Her and my sister really only talked maybe twice and it was very short. So she really does not know her.

I'm getting confused she said when we broke up she never wanted to see me again. She likes to drop hints.

But what could this mean? My heart has all these emotions right now.

What is she trying to tell me I liked one of her status on Facebook then she started liking mine and I liked a picture of us from prom on her page.

I mean does she like me again? What

Btw my sister in army bootcamp right now she does not have access to her Facebook or any connection accept letters.

stephanieross1 · October 2013

maybe she has a relationship with your sister now? It's possibly, one of my exes are bestfriends with my brother now.. (weird) but it happens.

It could mean she is interested, or just curious how you are doing.

just ask her out for coffee and figure out if anything is going on. be upfront about it

BusyRaeNOTBusty · October 2013

You could always ask her.

djeffreys10 · October 2013

One thing of for sure. If you want to get an accurate answer, it is MUCH better to ask a bunch of random people on the internet who have no actual knowledge of the situation what is going on, than to actually ask said chick what is going on.

GGut · October 2013

the smartest thing to do with Ex's is to not complicate anything by doing the no pants dance. The most fun thing to do with Ex's is the no pants dance. Quite the conundrum. Good luck

_Waffle_ · October 2013

Then she did something that took me off guard.

She wrote on my sister Facebook Wall Hey Emily how are you?

Some women are lesbians. Don't take it personal if they don't ever hook up with you and pick your sister instead. Go out and find a straight woman to make you happy. Wish your sister the best.

siegte16v · October 2013

May be she's fishing to see if your still available....play it cool son if she's hurt you in the past I wouldn't be so keen to keep in contact..

wolverine66 · October 2013

i actually know the answer.

but i'm a Pirates fan, so...

ldrosophila · October 2013

once again, so glad im old

Raynne413 · October 2013

ETA: Nevermind Ugh!

arghbowl · October 2013

........ *head desk*

Contrarian · October 2013

I don't know, man. I wish people would just talk to each other. Asking total strangers to read someone's mind after being given minimal information isn't going to get you any closer to the answer.

cookiealbright · October 2013

Facebook isn't real. I'm friends on facebook with people I don't even know. Hey just like here lol! Nothing has changed in my opinion. she is playing head games with you...why? Because you are letting her.

daybehavior · October 2013

Give us your Facebook so we can ask her for you.

Holly_Roman_Empire · October 2013

What are you, like twelve?!

YesIAm17 · October 2013

Don't take this the wrong way but I say... MAN UP!!!

Look, you're getting yourself all attached and emotional and you don't even know if anything will come of it.

Your attitude should be more like "either she is in to me again and if so maybe it is worth pursuing, maybe it isn't, or she isn't in to me, but either way I'm awesome and I am going to make my life awesome"

The premature attachment isn't going to help you figure anything out and could just be setting you up for unnecessary pain and drama.

If you think she might be into you again, and you think you might be into her again, then drop a subtle clue or 2 that you might be into her and see how she reacts. If she reacts positively then go for it, if you really want to, if not move on.

There is too much awesome out there for you to get lost in the drama.

SpeSHul_SnoflEHk · October 2013

MAybe she's into your sister.

GGut · October 2013

i retract what i previously said. Just do the no pants dance. it always makes things better...

vtmoon · October 2013

She wants a 5000 dollar ring, it is clear from her post on your sister's wall. I say go for it, but the ring and propose, show her that you have matured mentally.