Hello!

Hi everyone! My name is Michelle and I am 31 years old. I currently weight 307 lbs and i'm 5'5". Happily married, but no children yet. I've been trying to lose weight, on and off, pretty much all my life. Last time I was under 200 lbs was probably my freshman year in high school.

I have many reasons why I want to lose weight, but the most important ones are: to be healthy, to feel better about myself and to have a baby. Hubby and I have been TTC for about 5 years now, with no success (although we do have 3 furry babies) :) I've recently been diagnosed with PCOS. Doc says I haven't been able to have a baby because of my weight and the PCOS. PCOS makes it difficult for me to lose weight as well. I DON'T want to be skinny. My goal weight used to be 150. That's unrealistic. If I ever get there, I would be very happy. However, I've realized that I was happy and healthy at around 215. So that is my first goal. I hope to one day be able to get under 200 lbs. Hubby is very supportive. He loves me for who I am. Works out with me and keeps me going.

I joined a small local gym at the beginning of September, committed to working out 4-5 x's a week and lost 5 lbs in a month. But the scale hasn't moved in the last 2 weeks. Very frustrating. Sometimes I feel like I am working out for nothing. Given up a lot of junk food and fast food, which was my main problem. I'm not gonna lie, I still have fast food or desert once in a while. But its no longer an almost-every day thing. I was suggested I join myfitnesspal to keep track of my calories and to find support and motivation, so here I am. Hoping this helps. :)

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  • HealthyWarrior
    HealthyWarrior Posts: 394 Member
    Hi Michelle and welcome to myfitnesspal. Best wishes on your journey. Take it one day at a time. Fall off the wagon..... don't beat yourself up about it and just get back up and keep on moving forward. Feel free to add me as a friend if you'd like. 32 happily married with 2 children
  • Michelle_MyBelle
    Michelle_MyBelle Posts: 56 Member
    Thank you! I sent you a friend request. And congrats on the 15 lbs lost! :)
  • Hello everyone looking for ssome extra motivation.
  • weaving2fast
    weaving2fast Posts: 64 Member
    Hi Michelle. I just joined myfitnesspal today. I want you to know that you are not alone. I've been starving myself and working out at the gym for the last 2 weeks out of the fear that I have a doctor appointment next Monday and I'm sick of him telling me to lose weight. I too hope that by tracking everything it will motivate me. I am so tired of looking around a restaurant, business, meeting, party or wherever and being the biggest person in the room. I'm a 43 year old single dad of a 20 year old who weighs 100 pounds. Oh to be young again!!
  • Michelle_MyBelle
    Michelle_MyBelle Posts: 56 Member
    Hi! I hate that feeling of knowing you are the biggest person in the room. Feels like all eyes are on you. It sucks! Good luck on your appointment!
  • kgreenRDLDN
    kgreenRDLDN Posts: 248 Member
    Welcome Michelle! I'm glad you came to join us from Craigslist and I'm here to help you along. I think your first goal is a very good one. Remember its easier to set small goals and achieve them than to set large ones and struggle or fail or get discouraged. I accepted your add and look forward to watching you progress toward your goal of weight loss and a family!
  • Michelle_MyBelle
    Michelle_MyBelle Posts: 56 Member
    Thanks Kimberly! And thank you for sending me this website! :)
  • Helsbels84
    Helsbels84 Posts: 1 Member
    Hello, third time on here and hoping thirds a charm!! I know i need to stick with it and not lose motivation if i have a blip. Thought posting on the message boards may help me keep going!! My aim is to lose a stone by Christmas and then set another goal... Good luck to everyone on their weight loss journey :flowerforyou:
  • Michelle_MyBelle
    Michelle_MyBelle Posts: 56 Member
    Good luck to you too, @helsbels84! :)