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BusyRaeNOTBusty

Just joking.

Here's a novel concept: YOU get to decide what is healthy, sexy and beautiful when it comes to your own body.

And the reality is that no matter what you decide, someone will tell you you're wrong.

But, someone else will think you're perfect. When you do what YOU love, when you live the life YOU want, when you portray the image YOU want to portray, there will be someone (probably a lot of someones, actually) who are looking for those qualities in a friend, or partner.

Don't live for the people telling you you're wrong. Live for yourself, and the people who love the qualities you possess will be drawn to you.

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DeputySox

Well written. Thank you.

simplycorey

Love this.

JustAboutDelicious_wechanged

So true. I very often look at myself in the mirror and the retrospective inner mirror and wonder how anyone could love "this". Then I realize, yup, people do love me with my flaws and all. Thank God, my perception of my lack of perfection is sometimes beautiful to others.

TheSlorax

I absolutely love this. I wish I would have read it years ago.

Chieflrg

Word.

It took me a very long time to figure this out.

Life is incredible since...

FatHuMan1

QFT

missyj1115

Thank you for this!!

Took me a very long time to realize this but did and couldn't be happier

EmilyJackCO

I love you.

westoweighless

love that quote

Maryaly40

bump

RunningForeverMama

Amen!

Chellody22

YesIAm17

Awesome!

BusyRaeNOTBusty

BUMP due to recent topics. :grumble:

sanderdejonge

It's one of the most attractive features one can have: Living for yourself. Being yourself, and being confident about it.