Denied friend requests

Options
2»

Replies

  • This content has been removed.
  • Posts: 964 Member

    Yep.

    Also agree!
  • Posts: 964 Member
    Apologies. Its just a profession that occasionally forgets that other adults aren't students in their classroom.

    LOL, this is funny
  • Posts: 2,059 Member
    Do what I do: Don't make friend requests.
  • Posts: 4,317 Member

    but I wasn't really looking at the stethoscope ;)

    Watch yourself buddy! I am a teacher as well...but I am the type of teacher who still believes in giving out spankings as punishment for bad behavior. :)
  • Posts: 2,654 Member
    This is funny... I have four requests sitting in my queue, because I don't accept male MFP's (for a variety or reasons) I sent each one a nice note explaining why I was not accepting their request. However, I cannot bring myself to click Decline... it seems so mean... :/. So they just sit there..... A No Thank you would be easier for me to click on than a DECLINE! lol

    LOl, I have 17 in my queue right now. Some of them are males and I do the same thing by sending them a nice note. However, I noticed that if I declined them, some of them just requested again, so I leave them on there so they can't keep sending requests. ( I agree that it would be nice to have some sort of marking when you have FR'd someone already)

    Now, to be honest, one of them stays on the queue because he is young with some hot abs! I know he FRs everyone and is probably selling BB, but it does this old grandma's ego some good to see his pic on my list! :blushing:
  • Posts: 7,512 Member
    well if you annoy em enough they can block you. The responsibility is on the recipient of the request
  • Posts: 3,562 Member

    LOl, I have 17 in my queue right now. Some of them are males and I do the same thing by sending them a nice note. However, I noticed that if I declined them, some of them just requested again, so I leave them on there so they can't keep sending requests. ( I agree that it would be nice to have some sort of marking when you have FR'd someone already)

    Poor guys. They are stuck in the ever dreaded Friend Request Zone. :sad:
  • Posts: 358 Member
    I wish I had that problem lol
  • Posts: 543 Member
    I usually add anyone until they start to bother me. Then i just delete them.
  • I disagree. One the second denied request the recipient should be granted a Public Shaming button.

    lulz :laugh:
  • Posts: 869 Member
    I accept everyone and just delete anyone who I deem weird or stops logging on or doesn't ever talk.
  • Posts: 1,311 Member
    I rarely send out FR, but I actually really like this idea.
  • Posts: 91 Member
    I asked in my profile to add a quick note with request. If a person did not bother reading through my profile and send a request without a note, I do not accept that request. But what if someone read it afterwards and says shoot, forgot to do that! Disabling the button so there are no repeat requests would not allow this person to resubmit. I think it´s a bit too strict to disable request button. I don´t assume someone is a stalker, unless it becomes apparent. I also remove everyone who is not active on the site, and doesn´t communicate daily. So this is not an issue for me, I guess.
  • Posts: 2,467 Member
    virgins-
  • Posts: 222 Member
    [/quote]

    Poor guys. They are stuck in the ever dreaded Friend Request Zone. :sad:
    [/quote]

    LOL!
  • Posts: 4,142 Member
    Just press deny then forget about it. What's the big deal?
  • Posts: 576 Member
    I don't even know what good friends are on MFP. I understand they can post on my profile or something, but I never read that stuff anyway.
  • Posts: 7,088 Member
    I think it's a good idea. I also don't think there's anything wrong with this thread, or anything wrong with being considerate.
    I agree!!!!!
  • Posts: 1,053 Member
    This is funny... I have four requests sitting in my queue, because I don't accept male MFP's (for a variety or reasons) I sent each one a nice note explaining why I was not accepting their request. However, I cannot bring myself to click Decline... it seems so mean... :/. So they just sit there..... A No Thank you would be easier for me to click on than a DECLINE! lol


    That is exactly what I do! I just don't feel good about declining, so I just let them sit there.
  • Posts: 1,574 Member
    I wish mfp would have a "politely decline with a 'no thank you' message" option, so that the person who has been denied knows their FR was at least received. And It's not just sitting in someone's queue. Because sometimes the FR doesn't go through.
  • Posts: 790 Member
    I usually friend everyone that sends me a request. Then I get rid of them when they send me messages asking me how to give oral sex or telling me what they would like to do with my breasts.
This discussion has been closed.