Aesthetically what looks good to you

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I really like the nice thin look, flat stomach, big hips, huge butt, all of that. When I look at fitblr on tumblr I see tons of good looking female pictures. But then I see some where I cant tell the sex. I cant comprehend how stripping away every ounce of femininity could be attractive? You know the huge arms and legs on a female. Its not aesthetically attractive to ANYONE I have ever met irl maybe in magic internet land.

My question is, we can have an aesthetic type, you can like brown hair or blonde, you can like blue eyes or green and no one criticizes you, BUT the second you take that aesthetics to another level you get put down for it? Also what is the point in complaining about body shamming when you make fun of skinny girls as well? Its the same thing.