A Man Walks Down A Street And Falls Into A Hole
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Brandolin11
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A man walks down a street in his town and falls into a big hole right in the middle of the road. Injured, he climbs out and goes on his way.
The next day, he walks down the street again, and falls into the big hole again. Angry and frustrated, he climbs out and goes his way.
The third day, he decides to walk around the hole and goes on his way.
The fourth day, he walks down another street.
Our lives are a bit like this, aren't they? Especially when it comes to our weight loss journeys. We do the same things over and over again which cause us to fall into "holes" and get "injured" (gain weight, etc.).
What are some roads you have gone down (or keep traveling down) that have big holes in them that you fall into?
How/when did you decide to walk down another street and what did that look like?
Have you stayed off the street since then? Or have you revisited your hole?
For example, before I learned to manage my compulsive overeating, I used to go to a cupcake shop in a nearby town every Saturday, buy four large cupcakes (usually red velvet w/cream cheese frosting if they had them), drive to a local park where no one would see me, and wolf all four of them down in the car. I would wake up on Saturday morning and say, "I really shouldn't eat those cupcakes today, I gained three lbs last week". But then somehow I would find myself driving close to that town to do "errands" that could have been done in another town. I would try and try to resist but I would eventually end up at that shop and in the car with those cupcakes.
Eventually, I decided to give up baked goods altogether. Once the cravings had passed, I realized how much self control I actually had. I never ate cupcakes, nor any other baked good again. It's been almost two years.
That was my hole and the abstinence from sweets is my new street. How about you?
The next day, he walks down the street again, and falls into the big hole again. Angry and frustrated, he climbs out and goes his way.
The third day, he decides to walk around the hole and goes on his way.
The fourth day, he walks down another street.
Our lives are a bit like this, aren't they? Especially when it comes to our weight loss journeys. We do the same things over and over again which cause us to fall into "holes" and get "injured" (gain weight, etc.).
What are some roads you have gone down (or keep traveling down) that have big holes in them that you fall into?
How/when did you decide to walk down another street and what did that look like?
Have you stayed off the street since then? Or have you revisited your hole?
For example, before I learned to manage my compulsive overeating, I used to go to a cupcake shop in a nearby town every Saturday, buy four large cupcakes (usually red velvet w/cream cheese frosting if they had them), drive to a local park where no one would see me, and wolf all four of them down in the car. I would wake up on Saturday morning and say, "I really shouldn't eat those cupcakes today, I gained three lbs last week". But then somehow I would find myself driving close to that town to do "errands" that could have been done in another town. I would try and try to resist but I would eventually end up at that shop and in the car with those cupcakes.
Eventually, I decided to give up baked goods altogether. Once the cravings had passed, I realized how much self control I actually had. I never ate cupcakes, nor any other baked good again. It's been almost two years.
That was my hole and the abstinence from sweets is my new street. How about you?
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Reading that has made me really really really want to eat some cupcakes now.0
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In my case, I don't avoid the hole or travel to get around it. It is part of my everyday life, I climb down carefully and don't get hurt anymore. :laugh: I have ice cream everyday, as well as all the other foods I love and still lose weight.
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/817188-iifym0 -
The hole I end up falling in to is I stop weighing myself once a week and allow my eating habits to slip. Then I don't realize that I'm gaining weight until my pants start fitting tightly at which point I have to crawl back out of the hole and dust myself off and lose the weight again. I won't fall in to that hole again
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I can't have biscuits (cookies) or crackers in the house without eating them all at once, so I just don't buy them any more0
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two years with no baked goods?????:noway: :noway: :noway:
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two years with no baked goods?????:noway: :noway: :noway:
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Haha! I should emphasize that this is just what works for *me* personally! It is the decision I made to keep myself safe. There are lots of foods that are problems for other people that I do just fine with, like chips and fried foods and stuff like that.
But I will say this - I don't miss those sweets one little bit. Best thing I ever did. I know that's hard for a lot of folks to believe but you could strap me to a lie detector and I'd pass! LOL But again - not for everyone.0 -
The hole I end up falling in to is I stop weighing myself once a week and allow my eating habits to slip. Then I don't realize that I'm gaining weight until my pants start fitting tightly at which point I have to crawl back out of the hole and dust myself off and lose the weight again. I won't fall in to that hole again
Good for you! Making a decision not to fall in is the first step. Way to go.0 -
In my case, I don't avoid the hole or travel to get around it. It is part of my everyday life, I climb down carefully and don't get hurt anymore. :laugh: I have ice cream everyday, as well as all the other foods I love and still lose weight.
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/817188-iifym
That's awesome and I like that alternate perspective on this topic. It's cool that you were able to modify a past bad behavior and make it work for you, congrats.0 -
two years with no baked goods?????:noway: :noway: :noway:
NO
Haha! I should emphasize that this is just what works for *me* personally! It is the decision I made to keep myself safe. There are lots of foods that are problems for other people that I do just fine with, like chips and fried foods and stuff like that.
But I will say this - I don't miss those sweets one little bit. Best thing I ever did. I know that's hard for a lot of folks to believe but you could strap me to a lie detector and I'd pass! LOL But again - not for everyone.
Yes!
Because we're all here for the same reason but we're all different.0 -
Reading that has made me really really really want to eat some cupcakes now.
Oh nooooooooo! Maybe this thread is now your hole? lol0 -
I thought this was going to be a gif thread.0
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the hole I used to fall in was abstinence, well, I guess the street was abstinence and the holes were all the things I didn't really want to abstain from. Then I took a stroll down moderation street. There's all the things I want to eat there, just in sensible serving sizes and a big advertisment for eating more slowly and enjoying every bite, and shops selling high protein and other very nutritious food, to also enjoy every bite of. And no holes. And McDonalds is only open once a week.0
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Oh yummy! Red Velvet Cupcakes are my FAVORITE!!! My "hole" is that I allow myself to get stagnant when it comes to working out, especially when I get close to my goal weight -- I've come within 4lbs of it a few times, then I stop watching what I eat and making sure I'm working out regularly. Now I just make sure I eat clean most of the time, but I allow myself treats -like red velvet cupcakes!- on occasion and in moderation. I've also found fun ways to workout -- I pole dance :-) and even though it's incredibly expensive I keep a personal trainer that I have to meet with regularly to keep myself accountable to going to the gym and working out.0
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I thought this was going to be a gif thread.
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the hole I used to fall in was abstinence, well, I guess the street was abstinence and the holes were all the things I didn't really want to abstain from. Then I took a stroll down moderation street. There's all the things I want to eat there, just in sensible serving sizes and a big advertisment for eating more slowly and enjoying every bite, and shops selling high protein and other very nutritious food, to also enjoy every bite of. And no holes. And McDonalds is only open once a week.
That's interesting that abstinence became a hole for you. I'd almost call that "legalism" instead of abstinence though, because abstinence in and of itself isn't a bad thing... If you practice abstinence in a legalistic way with yourself (i.e., you tell yourself those things are "bad" and you're a "bad person" if you eat them) then I can see how someone could fall into that hole, that'd be miserable. It's great to hear that you were able to practice moderation with those things, how freeing. There are a lot of people who can do it. I'm not one of them when it comes to sweets (though I do moderation in lots and lots of other goodies), but there are a lot who can! 0 -
Wait, so we're the hole?
JK, like the thread.0 -
For example, before I learned to manage my compulsive overeating, I used to go to a cupcake shop in a nearby town every Saturday, buy four large cupcakes (usually red velvet w/cream cheese frosting if they had them), drive to a local park where no one would see me, and wolf all four of them down in the car. I would wake up on Saturday morning and say, "I really shouldn't eat those cupcakes today, I gained three lbs last week". But then somehow I would find myself driving close to that town to do "errands" that could have been done in another town. I would try and try to resist but I would eventually end up at that shop and in the car with those cupcakes.
Eventually, I decided to give up baked goods altogether. Once the cravings had passed, I realized how much self control I actually had. I never ate cupcakes, nor any other baked good again. It's been almost two years.
That was my hole and the abstinence from sweets is my new street. How about you?
WOW, well done you for recognising the `wrong street and hole`
I am sure there are lots of people on MFP with compulsive eating disorders that you can share your advice with for them to get in a good place also :flowerforyou:
My new street is trying to keep following the one marked weights not just walking0 -
For example, before I learned to manage my compulsive overeating, I used to go to a cupcake shop in a nearby town every Saturday, buy four large cupcakes (usually red velvet w/cream cheese frosting if they had them), drive to a local park where no one would see me, and wolf all four of them down in the car. I would wake up on Saturday morning and say, "I really shouldn't eat those cupcakes today, I gained three lbs last week". But then somehow I would find myself driving close to that town to do "errands" that could have been done in another town. I would try and try to resist but I would eventually end up at that shop and in the car with those cupcakes.
Eventually, I decided to give up baked goods altogether. Once the cravings had passed, I realized how much self control I actually had. I never ate cupcakes, nor any other baked good again. It's been almost two years.
That was my hole and the abstinence from sweets is my new street. How about you?
WOW, well done you for recognising the `wrong street and hole`
I am sure there are lots of people on MFP with compulsive eating disorders that you can share your advice with for them to get in a good place also :flowerforyou:
My new street is trying to keep following the one marked weights not just walking
Aw, thanks!
I think I need to walk down that new street with you - I love to run and bike but keep shunning those weights even though I KNOW it's so good for me, especially since I'm over 40 years old. This winter I will start.0 -
Don't wait. Start right now. BY FAR my biggest regret is that I waited until I was near my goal weight to start lifting.
For example, before I learned to manage my compulsive overeating, I used to go to a cupcake shop in a nearby town every Saturday, buy four large cupcakes (usually red velvet w/cream cheese frosting if they had them), drive to a local park where no one would see me, and wolf all four of them down in the car. I would wake up on Saturday morning and say, "I really shouldn't eat those cupcakes today, I gained three lbs last week". But then somehow I would find myself driving close to that town to do "errands" that could have been done in another town. I would try and try to resist but I would eventually end up at that shop and in the car with those cupcakes.
Eventually, I decided to give up baked goods altogether. Once the cravings had passed, I realized how much self control I actually had. I never ate cupcakes, nor any other baked good again. It's been almost two years.
That was my hole and the abstinence from sweets is my new street. How about you?
WOW, well done you for recognising the `wrong street and hole`
I am sure there are lots of people on MFP with compulsive eating disorders that you can share your advice with for them to get in a good place also :flowerforyou:
My new street is trying to keep following the one marked weights not just walking
Aw, thanks!
I think I need to walk down that new street with you - I love to run and bike but keep shunning those weights even though I KNOW it's so good for me, especially since I'm over 40 years old. This winter I will start.
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/977538-halp-heavy-lifting-made-me-supah-bulky
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1045433-women-lifting-heavy-with-pics
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/987513-lifting-is-the-most-horrible-thing-to-a-woman-since-twiggy
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1102508-mfp-fitspiration
and this:
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1126817-why-are-so-many-people-waiting-to-add-lifting?0 -
My hole was getting "in for a penny, in for a pound" when I ate something extra or missed exercise. It was like "this day is already blown and I'll be back on my diet tomorrow so I might as well eat everything I've been wanting to eat today." Or I'd do the "I'll start my diet Monday thing." Now I see that days stretch 24 hours behind and ahead so an indulgence can usually be compensated for so even if I don't lose weight that day, I don't have to gain any weight. When you find yourself in a hole stop digging--much easier to get out that way.0
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