Eating Issues...Boyfriend..?

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  • MisterDerpington
    MisterDerpington Posts: 604 Member
    Go work out as often as you can. And rebound sex.
  • ellew70
    ellew70 Posts: 222 Member
    Damn thats rough, my ex gf (with a child, that i felt i was almost a father figure with) broke up with me over the phone, it felt horrible. I felt betrayed, but you know what life goes on. Just remember, in like 3 months, that person wont even pop in your head anymore. The way i see it, why is it worth chasing somebody that let you go. He should be chasing you, if he is not, its not meant to be.

    I'd prefer a break-up over the phone, as compared to the sad reality of how we actually broke up.
    If you must know, he broke up with me via text consisting solely of emoticons.

    If this is his level of emotional maturity, that he had to text you with emoticons, then you are way way too good for him. Consider it a blessing in disguise, although it is hard to see that right now. Be kind to and take care of yourself and someone who deserves you will show up when you least expect it.
  • helpfit101
    helpfit101 Posts: 347 Member
    Damn thats rough, my ex gf (with a child, that i felt i was almost a father figure with) broke up with me over the phone, it felt horrible. I felt betrayed, but you know what life goes on. Just remember, in like 3 months, that person wont even pop in your head anymore. The way i see it, why is it worth chasing somebody that let you go. He should be chasing you, if he is not, its not meant to be.

    I'd prefer a break-up over the phone, as compared to the sad reality of how we actually broke up.
    If you must know, he broke up with me via text consisting solely of emoticons.

    Wow how does that work?
  • xLaPetiteFille
    xLaPetiteFille Posts: 76
    But... you are so young! And you're stunning (really, you are).
    If you're feeling a bit vindictive... remember... living well is the best revenge. :D

    *hugs*
    You, my darling, are extremely gorgeous <3

    Thank you so much for the nice words, and that beautiful quote (: i'll do just that
  • xLaPetiteFille
    xLaPetiteFille Posts: 76
    Damn thats rough, my ex gf (with a child, that i felt i was almost a father figure with) broke up with me over the phone, it felt horrible. I felt betrayed, but you know what life goes on. Just remember, in like 3 months, that person wont even pop in your head anymore. The way i see it, why is it worth chasing somebody that let you go. He should be chasing you, if he is not, its not meant to be.

    I'd prefer a break-up over the phone, as compared to the sad reality of how we actually broke up.
    If you must know, he broke up with me via text consisting solely of emoticons.

    Wow how does that work?

    I'll upload the SS for everyone's humor soon hehe:P <3
  • xLaPetiteFille
    xLaPetiteFille Posts: 76
    Damn thats rough, my ex gf (with a child, that i felt i was almost a father figure with) broke up with me over the phone, it felt horrible. I felt betrayed, but you know what life goes on. Just remember, in like 3 months, that person wont even pop in your head anymore. The way i see it, why is it worth chasing somebody that let you go. He should be chasing you, if he is not, its not meant to be.

    I'd prefer a break-up over the phone, as compared to the sad reality of how we actually broke up.
    If you must know, he broke up with me via text consisting solely of emoticons.

    If this is his level of emotional maturity, that he had to text you with emoticons, then you are way way too good for him. Consider it a blessing in disguise, although it is hard to see that right now. Be kind to and take care of yourself and someone who deserves you will show up when you least expect it.

    Yeah, that's what im going to do, I'm not going to look for a guy, going to let it happen when it does. (; thanks love
  • xLaPetiteFille
    xLaPetiteFille Posts: 76
    Success and happiness are your best revenge. For now since the wounds are still fresh...it's best to get away from food. Sleep more or just go soak in the tub and cry if it makes you feel better. Take care of yourself now before those "wounds" become infected.

    As they heal, and he becomes a distant stain on your memory, then you can regain focus and get back on your healthy track.

    I know this is the hard one but you need to get rid off all forms of communication. Delete numbers, FB accounts, email addys, everything you can. Get rid of pictures, get rid of presents (at least the cheap ones I keep the jewelry), and focus on yourself. Heal you can do it.

    This response was really beautiful, thank you for that advice, i was stalling on removing him from my contacts or such, only because he's not taking it well either, and i thought i could maybe help...him too? Don't know how that works. :/ But eventually i'll remove him. Yes, crying helps tonnes. Makes me feel better, i think everyone needs to cry once in a while.
  • xLaPetiteFille
    xLaPetiteFille Posts: 76
    you are heart broken over a guy that broke up with you over a text? Don't throw your weight loss away for anybody especially a coward who was not even man enough to say it to your face. Learn to deal with the loss because as you get older there will be more, don't dwell on it, life happens and you will pull through.

    thanks so much love. That was blunt and pretty lovely to read, im trying not to dwell on it, and months of progress is not worth risking over a break-up, i agree! Thank you!
  • mathiseasy
    mathiseasy Posts: 165 Member
    Success and happiness are your best revenge. For now since the wounds are still fresh...it's best to get away from food. Sleep more or just go soak in the tub and cry if it makes you feel better. Take care of yourself now before those "wounds" become infected.

    As they heal, and he becomes a distant stain on your memory, then you can regain focus and get back on your healthy track.

    I know this is the hard one but you need to get rid off all forms of communication. Delete numbers, FB accounts, email addys, everything you can. Get rid of pictures, get rid of presents (at least the cheap ones I keep the jewelry), and focus on yourself. Heal you can do it.

    This response was really beautiful, thank you for that advice, i was stalling on removing him from my contacts or such, only because he's not taking it well either, and i thought i could maybe help...him too? Don't know how that works. :/ But eventually i'll remove him. Yes, crying helps tonnes. Makes me feel better, i think everyone needs to cry once in a while.

    I just love her advice. After being dumped after a 4-year relationship a few years ago, this is exactly how I got over it. Heal yourself first, and part of the healing is getting rid of all contact. Deleting siblings on FB, deleting all previous texts and voice mails, burning pictures and notes/cards, the whole 9 yards. I would go so far as to remove him from your contacts, if he's not taking it well then he needs to find his own way - don't let him crawl his way back into your life because judging from the manner he broke up with you, you don't need someone like him. You are much more than he is.
    Healing is possible :) You can do this!

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