A vent on feeling lonely at nights :P

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  • Me2FitMe
    Me2FitMe Posts: 1,285 Member
    ... There are many things I've done to keep myself occupied and am perfectly happy doing these things alone.

    Loneliness isn't because you don't have someone around. Loneliness is a state of mind. I know this, because divorce taught me that.


    ^^This is true!
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    FR Sent!

    :angry:

    I thought we had something special!!!

    *runs away crying*

    He told me the same thing! Damnit Ryry. :brokenheart:

    This is my nightmare!
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    I know it's cliche but I swear it holds so true. It's when you least expect it, or when you are at that point youre content with your life.

    Nights are hard and besides finding a Mr. Right Now, LOL not much advice there.

    Just be friendly, laugh, stay open to meeting new people you'll be fine.
    I've heard a few cute stories of people meeting on MFP.

    You never know.
  • kyleekay10
    kyleekay10 Posts: 1,812 Member
    FR Sent!

    :angry:

    I thought we had something special!!!

    *runs away crying*

    He told me the same thing! Damnit Ryry. :brokenheart:

    This is my nightmare!

    i-am-disappoint.jpg
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    FR Sent!

    :angry:

    I thought we had something special!!!

    *runs away crying*

    He told me the same thing! Damnit Ryry. :brokenheart:

    This is my nightmare!

    i-am-disappoint.jpg

    Cat-puppy-hug-gif.gif
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    FR Sent!

    :angry:

    I thought we had something special!!!

    *runs away crying*

    He told me the same thing! Damnit Ryry. :brokenheart:

    This is my nightmare!

    i-am-disappoint.jpg

    Cat-puppy-hug-gif.gif

    Well played. The overwhelming cuteness is completely distracting. :wink:
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
    FR Sent!

    :angry:

    I thought we had something special!!!

    *runs away crying*

    He told me the same thing! Damnit Ryry. :brokenheart:

    This is my nightmare!

    i-am-disappoint.jpg

    Cat-puppy-hug-gif.gif

    that kitty looks exactly like my puppy!!

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1122958-please-help
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
    serious answer... OP, I am also single and I know how you feel. with that, I agree with what another poster said about this not being a good substitute for a dating site. I know a couple people who met their SOs here but it seems like it just kind of happened and they did not have the intent of finding a relationship.

    I am still trying to figure out what to do meet more people (fairly new to my area) but I'm extremely shy so it's been difficult. I think I am going to try a meetup group soon, I think they might have that in the UK. good luck!
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Why bother meeting anyone? I say go for a run then play some video games while drinking beer.


    Works for me.

    Sad.gif
  • tenax
    tenax Posts: 97
    My ex gf told me that i needed to learn to enjoy my own company...after we broke up. One of her many ways of letting me down easy i guess:( And yep, i get lonely nights..
  • _tam_
    _tam_ Posts: 257
    I'm not a fan of the lonely nights. The insomnia is the worst! I just can't get used to it. I don't want to...
  • PinkHurricane88
    PinkHurricane88 Posts: 156 Member
    My wife and I met on eHarmony.com..... I worked full time in an office and she was a 3rd grade teacher. Neither of us had the opportunities to meet a SO and were both tired of the bar scene. We've been happily married for 7 years this December. NOW... online dating isn't for everyone. You have to go in with a very open mind and cannot be naive to the fact that there are scammers out there. But like Chaelez said... check into some sports leagues, church activities...good luck.... :o)

    Agree with all of the above!! My husband and I also met online, we have been happily married going on two years and are expecting our first baby next year! :D

    Now when you go into online dating you are able to weed through some of the people that you know you would not be compatible with, and there are some strange characters out there you have to watch out for. On the other hand, you can take more time to get to know someone you are interested in before your first date with them (if you choose to continue further with that person) and you can really find someone you are looking for, who has the same values, morals, similar ideas and goals, loves kids, you get the picture. The same can happen in groups like running clubs, classes that you can take on anything, really anywhere! You do have a lot of options, don't feel like you will always be lonely, you are a beautiful girl and obviously a sweetheart, so you will find your special someone!

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