Looking for some buddys!!

Hi there!! I'm a 45yr old mother of 3. I have had ups and downs my whole diet life, but need to make my downs stick. LOL
I am on a mission to lose 50lbs. I became a licensed Zumba instructor last January, but have had many things pop up, to keep me from a healthy body.
I'm a vegetarian, whom eats mostly vegan, but have a compulsive problem with sweets. I'm allergic to wheat, so it's chocolate that keep me big.
I hope to find some new friends that are ready to make a life change, and that I can also help during this journey. Feel free to add me!!