Possession, jealousy... what would you call this?

F00LofaT00K

Other than crazy. :bigsmile:

I catch my boyfriend checking out other girls from time to time and I don't really care. I'll point out good butts to him and say things like "yoga pants, ten o'clock!" But the second I catch a girl checking HIM out... I hate her. SO. MUCH. HATE. SO-MUCH! Because... How dare she! I feel like a crazy person haha. It's not really jealousy though because I'm so much cooler than sooo many people (or just incredibly pretentious!) Is that possessiveness? I asked my boyfriend and he said he has no idea and called me "Wierdo McWierdington." :grumble:

I need answers!

mikesavvy

That's not possession or jealousy. That's just you being protective. Like when a kid has a shiney coin, he hides that *****!

F00LofaT00K

That's not possession or jealousy. That's just you being protective. Like when a kid has a shiney coin, he hides that *****!

On very hot days, my boyfriend IS shiney...

sweet_blasphemy

next time you catch a b*tch scoping him out, just p*ss on him and mark your territory. raise hackles and bear teeth if necessary.

mikesavvy

See!!! You just turned it weird!

Haha joking. Just relax. Don't mean to be crude but when a girls looks at him take it as a compliment and remember they don't get to have!

mikesavvy

Actually I like sweet's idea. Yeah do that

PikaKnight

That's not possession or jealousy. That's just you being protective. Like when a kid has a shiney coin, he hides that *****!

Actually that is possessiveness and yes, OP, you are being possessive.

TX_Thundercat

Not a big deal just don't cut a b!tch.

OMGeeeHorses

Not a big deal just don't cut a b!tch.

No No!! She need to cut a B!tch up!!

pinkraynedropjacki

next time you catch a b*tch scoping him out, just p*ss on him and mark your territory. raise hackles and bear teeth if necessary.

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Seriously though, it's not her fault. She may not find him attractive. She may be checking him out cause he could be repulsive to her.

wolverine66

i don't understand this.

it would seem that someone checking out your boyfriend means that he is attractive and it's actually a compliment to you that other women find him attractive and he chooses to be with you.

i agree with your boyfriend but probably would have come up with a different nickname, like Crazy McCrazypants

pittbullgirl

Personally, I love it when other girls check my hott hubby out. He works out 6 days a week, used to body build so its NO secret that he's hott!
Yup, check him out ladies....he is ALL mine.

F00LofaT00K

Not a big deal just don't cut a b!tch.

No No!! She need to cut a B!tch up!!

HAHA! I would never.

F00LofaT00K

next time you catch a b*tch scoping him out, just p*ss on him and mark your territory. raise hackles and bear teeth if necessary.

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Seriously though, it's not her fault. She may not find him attractive. She may be checking him out cause he could be repulsive to her.

This is true. I think he's pretty dreamy though.

F00LofaT00K

i don't understand this.

it would seem that someone checking out your boyfriend means that he is attractive and it's actually a compliment to you that other women find him attractive and he chooses to be with you.

i agree with your boyfriend but probably would have come up with a different nickname, like Crazy McCrazypants

Of course it's a compliment. My statements are exaggerated... I don't really hate them. I just feel "something" and I don't know what it is. I was wondering if it was possession. Boyfriend didn't have an answer so I asked the internet.

wolverine66

maybe you are possessed. go see a priest.

Sinisterly

Eh, just make out in front of them. Stand your ground and smile at them lol

F00LofaT00K

maybe you are possessed. go see a priest.

I'll consider it.

kinzieplatt

you're not crazy i'm the same way! lol!

Kinzie

Cali_Chica

Yes it's possessiveness but don't let it consume you.

Your bf shouldn't be commenting on other chicks in front of you. That's disrespectful.

A jerk makes his woman jealous of other women. A gentleman makes other women jealous of his woman.

QuietBloom

maybe you are possessed. go see a priest.

AH! Mystery solved.

QuietBloom

Yes it's possessiveness but don't let it consume you.

Your bf shouldn't be commenting on other chicks in front of you. That's disrespectful.

A jerk makes his woman jealous of other women. A gentleman makes other women jealous of his woman.

Yeah, I don't get that whole part of the dynamic. Yet again, OP appears to like munching on mouses, so...

F00LofaT00K

Yes it's possessiveness but don't let it consume you.

Your bf shouldn't be commenting on other chicks in front of you. That's disrespectful.

A jerk makes his woman jealous of other women. A gentleman makes other women jealous of his woman.

He doesn't comment, I just see him look from time to time. It doesn't bother me... I look. It won't consume me, it's not a huge deal. Was really just wondering what it was. Thanks for the answer. It SOUNDED like possessiveness but every time I hear somebody referred to as "possessive" it's the people who tell their partner what they can and can't do or wear and who they can be friend with, etc. But I suppose the word is applied to people who are actually controlling as well?

Yeah, I don't get that whole part of the dynamic. Yet again, OP appears to like munching on mouses, so...

You're funny.