Non-wavers
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I also see motorcyclists wave at the risk of injury whenever they pass another fellow rider.
It's conventional in the UK to nod.Maybe folks are too busy concentrating on their work-out, but I tend to think folks are just becoming more anti-social, or societal norms have changed and I'm officially old-fashioned.
Cyclists generally nod, when running it does seem to depend on where. Again a nod is enough but some do seem to get all jazz hands and in need of a good slap0 -
For some of us social interactions are stressful. If we look away or ignore you don't take it personally. It just causes stress and anxiety to interact (even a nod or a wave) with complete strangers.
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Honestly taking note of this from two truly wonderful women. I'm gregarious to say the least and I had to tone myself down for many years living outside of my home state. I almost always grumble when my "mornings" aren't acknowledged, but not enough to post about it . . .
I'll return a 'good morning' now and when I'm running I tend to say something to those I pass, but I used to be a lot more uncomfortable in public. I would get up and go to the grocery store at 3 a.m. just to avoid being around a lot of people.0 -
I also see motorcyclists wave at the risk of injury whenever they pass another fellow rider.
Not much risk of injury here...Just sayin'.0 -
I'm fascinated by the percentage of people who initiate a greeting with me when I'm running alone vs. when I'm accompanied by one of my children on their bikes. I'd estimate it's ~15% alone and ~75% with kid...(and for females, it's ~5% alone and ~90% with kid). I've mentioned it to my kids before and we get a good laugh about it...and I've used it as an opportunity to discuss situational awareness and potential dangers/concerns to being alone on the trail.0
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For some of us social interactions are stressful. If we look away or ignore you don't take it personally. It just causes stress and anxiety to interact (even a nod or a wave) with complete strangers.
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Thanks everyone!
It appears that many of us runners are also not comfortable interacting with others. An interesting psych study perhaps. Correlation or just general pop...0 -
When I lived up north, I was taught to never make eye contact with strangers. But then I moved to the south and it's pretty much the norm here. There are a lot of transplants here, so if someone doesn't want to wave or say good morning, I don't take it personally.0
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More into staring, but thatz just me.0
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