crushing on my coworker lol

jecalloway91

Venting: ugh! I work with this guy and he's pretty cool.. We've texted back and forth for months, but then I told him I liked him more than a friend.. I even offered my body (hmm... nothing happened though) anyways he's in really good shape and im working on it... We worked out together tonight and lets just say he was intimidating , but he helped me a lot.. he pushed me to do more reps, showed me the correct techniques for lifting, and even gave me pep talks.. long story short he's amazing, but he's moving to another state on Sunday and I'm totally bummed... wtf should I do....

Docmahi

damn that sucks - sounds like you are already attached, just stay friends tho especially if hes moving

and lifting with a guy is definitely an awesome way to get him to notice you more - just deadlift while wearing yoga pants in front of him - work on me everytime

Mr_Bad_Example

Make a bacon sandwich.

Because, yeah.

randomtai

Make a bacon sandwich.

Because, yeah.

bettacheckyoself

you offered your body??? Um... I think you need to move on...

cmriverside

uh.

Make a break for it.

I H A T E long-distance relationships. Did it twice. Once, I married my now ex-husband. Second time, no way I was going to uproot my life for anyone.

Find someone in town. Just my opinion. Much more pleasant.

Madame_Goldbricker

you offered your body??? Um... I think you need to move on...

^^This! & for future reference OP if you genuinely like someone this is NEVER a good idea! You will end up heartbroken & they will do the moving on :flowerforyou:

wheird

you offered your body??? Um... I think you need to move on...

Ikr? You offered your body and he turned it down? That tells me that you didnt have that kind of relationship at that point and kind of made a slore of yourself.

Move on.

SerenaFisher

If you love it let it go. If ot doesn't come back... hint it down and kill it.:drinker:

BrainyBurro

post a thread on a fitness site asking for advice... oh wait... nvm.



all kidding aside. you told him. he knows. he's not made a move, so he's not interested. there's not much more you can do but move on.

smokeyg01

Make a bacon sandwich.

Because, yeah.

holy crap I'm in love

devil_in_a_blue_dress

Did he accept your body offer?

Wait, I see now he didn't. Time to move on.

QuietBloom

you offered your body??? Um... I think you need to move on...

Ikr? You offered your body and he turned it down? That tells me that you didnt have that kind of relationship at that point and kind of made a slore of yourself.

Move on.

I think it was very nice of him not to take advantage.

OP - think how much worse you would feel if he had taken you up on your offer. Stop throwing your body at guys trying to get them to like you. Damaging in the long run to YOU.

ldrosophila

enjoy the remaining days he has left in town as a friend

Oh and I do NOT think you should feel any guilt or shame for wanting to be intimate with him perfectly natural you were attracted. Unfortunately, for whatever reason (possibly he's not into women?) it didnt happen. However, by asking for intimacy in no way makes you any derogatory term used to describe a sexual woman it just makes you human.

SerenaFisher

Obviously it is not reciprocated. Move on.

randomtai

wheird

you offered your body??? Um... I think you need to move on...

Ikr? You offered your body and he turned it down? That tells me that you didnt have that kind of relationship at that point and kind of made a slore of yourself.

Move on.

I think it was very nice of him not to take advantage.

OP - think how much worse you would feel if he had taken you up on your offer. Stop throwing your body at guys trying to get them to like you. Damaging in the long run to YOU.

Yeah. It was very nice of him.

Mr_Bad_Example

Make a bacon sandwich.

Because, yeah.

OP would have had a better shot if she offered up a bacon sandwich like this.

Nicolee_2014

Next ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Matt24442

Buy him a horse...b!tches love horses

So_Much_Fab

Jeebus.

Girl, have some self-respect for yourself - nix the body offering!

Salty_Sauce

Was turning down the body offer some sort of mixed signal to you??? wtf woman !!

iamanadult

Try asking for his body. That way he doesn't have the responsibility of taking care of your body.

DanIsACyclingFool

enjoy the remaining days he has left in town as a friend

Oh and I do NOT think you should feel any guilt or shame for wanting to be intimate with him perfectly natural you were attracted. Unfortunately, for whatever reason (possibly he's not into women?) it didnt happen. However, by asking for intimacy in no way makes you any derogatory term used to describe a sexual woman it just makes you human.

Sorry, most of you. I agree with ^^^^^^

Especially considering how much other people get laid, why judge her? Aren't we all just nothing but mammals?:ohwell:

Until you walk a mile (or a decade) in my shoes you better not be judging me on anything I may or may not do. Just sayin....


It's natural for close friends to want to get closer. It's not always reciprocated though. Obviously the image you had of your relationship with him differed from his idea.


edit: just to be clear I have never slept with a coworker or friend. Not that I haven't wanted to.

Timshel_

he's pretty cool, he's in really good shape, he helped me a lot.. he pushed me to do more reps, showed me the correct techniques for lifting, and even gave me pep talks.. he's amazing. I even offered my body (hmm... nothing happened though)

Gay.