Male - Mid 40's I need an accountability buddy

I have been trying to do this on my own for a while and I have finally come to the realization I need some help and support.

I am basically alone in this quest. I have been trying to lose weight and get in shape for the past year, and was doing good, but fell into a state of no exercise this past summer. Everything I lost, I have gained back and I can feel myself getting bigger. The past few weeks with all of the "Gift" candies and baked treats are making matters worse. I am not obese, but I definitelyneed to lose weight. We can discuss this better at a later time thought

I am looking for someone who is willing to help keep me accountable for both diet and exercise. I need someone willing to not sugar coat things. I don't need you to be afraid of hurting my feelings. I am not like that. I would rather you tell me if you see trends in my diet or exercise that are hindering me/ hurting me. What would be cool is if you are someone with a personality like the trainers on the Biggest Loser tough on me, but also a friend when needed.

If you feel like this could be you, please go ahead and friend me. Any and all friends will be appreciated.