lacking in confidence!!

sarahjasmine1975

Hi ya, I've lost all my confidence, my boyfriend told our work friends that I was fat in front of me, we arnt close anymore, I just support through this forum to diet and be a happy confident bunny!!!

mistress8956

I wouldn't keep a bf like that around.

ddavies919

Yeah, forget him! He's probably not "man of the month" anyway, right? lol You need to surround yourself with people who are there to support you!

MistyRose0424

Yeah I'd get a new boyfriend there are good ones out there.

TaurusV

Why would he say that to work colleagues?

moutainbell26

Do not let the people in your life that you do not trust and love have a greater impact then the ones you do trust and love. Do not let one moment that he probably doesn't remember and has most likely not thought about since, run your life. You are strong. If you weren't you wouldn't be one here.

djxil

Time to dump him. Time to rebuild your confidence. Time to lose your weight. You have already decided to start your journey, now make it happen. We will support you.

MickyPHFX

You really don't need people like that in your life, forget about him and surround yourself with those who support you and will give you encouragement. I've only been on MFP for a couple of days and the amount of people wishing me and each other good luck whilst also offering tips and advise is overwhelming, your confidence will radiate from within.