How would you feel? :(

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  • littleburgy
    littleburgy Posts: 570 Member
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    When my husband and I first started dating we both agreed that staying physically fit helped keep sparks in a relationship.

    Earlier this year when he said we had gotten "chunky" I was really angry about it at first (I guess I didn't appreciate myself being included into his assessment) but he was right. Neither of us were in the best place at the time and we had both let stress take toll on ourselves. He took the initiative to get back into shape, I followed suit and our relationship and my own self-confidence has gotten better because of it.

    Good luck!
  • amaryllis135
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    I couldn't have asked for more encouraging answers. He even brought it up again and I reiterated what some of you told me, that he couldn't have gone about it in a more caring loving and supportive way. You all seem like awesome people and we can all be who we want to be. Anybody feel free to add me as a friend, I need all the awesome supportive people on my team I can get!