Face, Body, Brains

ScorpionQwean
ScorpionQwean Posts: 1,013 Member
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What attracts you? (excluding personality)
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  • JefferyArnold
    JefferyArnold Posts: 1,479 Member
    All of the above attract me... but if I have to choose only one... I need brains.

    A girl that is pretty is fun and all, but I need something more there than a physical attraction, something to hold my attention and keep me engaged.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    I think all of them are important. Probably face, then brains, then body, if I HAD to choose. But they're all about the same level of importance to me.
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    All important. Can't deny that the physical is what I'm attracted to first, but without brains, there's no sticking around.
  • selfepidemic1
    selfepidemic1 Posts: 159 Member
    Compassion, I don't like people who are jerks, selfish or think less of people. I think that being a kind, honest person is incredibly vital.

    For looks, I love people who are tall and dark C:
  • bd0027
    bd0027 Posts: 1,053 Member
    I like a mixture of all three.

    I always go for average looking guys. I've never been attracted to super good looking men. The guy that all my friends swoon over does nothing for me.

    I'm not big on buff dudes. I don't care too much for muscles. I actually like an average build, not too big, not too little.

    I <3 smart men. You can instantly become attractive to me if you're knowledgeable.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Well, for the meeting a stranger across a crowded room thing, face is going to be the first thing I notice. But brains are what's going to keep me around.

    I have in the past become friends with less physically attractive men and become attracted to their personalities, though, and their physical automatically becomes more attractive when that happens. I have also experienced the opposite -- hot guy who's not a nice person suddenly isn't so good-looking.
  • BekaBooluvsu
    BekaBooluvsu Posts: 470 Member
    Brains. If we don't have nothing in common I.e. some kind of intelligence then I bore easily.
  • AthleticForties_wechanged
    AthleticForties_wechanged Posts: 611
    I won't know if I'm attracted to someone until I talk to them for 10-15 minutes. I need to have a mental connection first. Usually I can tell in that conversation if I am attracted to the person or not. If every other word out of their mouth is "like" or they haven't read a book, newspaper or non-pop culture magazine in the last 6 months I'm probably not going to be digging them too much.
  • ScorpionQwean
    ScorpionQwean Posts: 1,013 Member
    Looks like the Brainiacs win !! LOL. On that note, I'm gonna eat and be happy..LOL, kidding.
  • kdb247
    kdb247 Posts: 326 Member
    What attracts you? (excluding personality)

    Hmmm... My What Attracts ME List:

    Mandatory: Broad shoulders. (I'm sick with this one)
    Flat Stomach (Washboards not required)
    Clean teeth with 90% of them in position.
    Clean finger nails.
    NO face tats.
    Well Kept Shoes.
    Confidence.
    Brainy but not too chatty.
    Packin.:wink:
    Generosity.
    God Fearing.

    The above is minimum for the kid. You have all of those I'm head over heels drooling attracted to you for sure. I guess I lean more towards "Body". Im a bad girl.:smokin:
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    I heart funny and smart! Then face, then hands.
  • TheSwollMinister
    TheSwollMinister Posts: 246 Member
    Long-term, it's gonna be brains. I married (and subsequently divorced) a woman that I went for because of looks/body. She was dumb as rocks tho. My wife now has it all, but her mind has always been the most attractive thing to me.
  • Poofy_Goodness
    Poofy_Goodness Posts: 229 Member
    Brains, eyes, scent.
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    Body for a night
    Face for a day
    Brains for a week
    All 3 forever
  • ItsMeGee3
    ItsMeGee3 Posts: 13,254 Member
    Body for a night
    Face for a day
    Brains for a week
    All 3 forever
    Great answer!
  • charliex2202
    charliex2202 Posts: 4,281 Member
    Eyes and smile attract me....sense of humour and brains keep me...
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    Brains. No question. A handsome face, and an awesome smile are nice, but the brains will be what I stick around for, long term.
  • sheenarama
    sheenarama Posts: 733 Member
    Sexy brains!!
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
    brains = personality, to me, anyway. not just smarts.

    funforsports said it best.
    Body for a night
    Face for a day
    Brains for a week
    All 3 forever
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,982 Member
    Boobs and butt.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal/Group FitnessTrainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • DymonNdaRgh40
    DymonNdaRgh40 Posts: 661 Member
    If I had to pick one it would be brains. Intelligence is so sexy.... but finding all three in one package would be awesome.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    What attracts you? (excluding personality)

    No one has mentioned the wallet yet? That attracts so many people.
  • Blokeypoo
    Blokeypoo Posts: 274 Member
    Large hairy forearms and body hair, a chimp really!
  • somefitsomefat
    somefitsomefat Posts: 445 Member
    Is money an option?
  • Sexier_than_wonderwoman
    Sexier_than_wonderwoman Posts: 23 Member
    Personality and brains are equal
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    Nice eyes and smile and a good sense of humour
  • Escloflowne
    Escloflowne Posts: 2,038 Member
    Personality and brains are equal

    x2
  • dirty_dirty_eater
    dirty_dirty_eater Posts: 574 Member
    Sexual availability.
    It's the only thing that REALLY matters.

    (Life is simple, in my simple mind.)
  • idontcarroll
    idontcarroll Posts: 216 Member
    As long as they are breathing and willing, then I'm happy.
  • Cre8veLifeR
    Cre8veLifeR Posts: 1,062 Member
    Brains - as long as it's coupled with common sense. I know book smart people who aren't very emotionally intelligent. Brains + personality gets me - worked for the hubby! He's a structural engineer (smart) + great outgoing personality with a great sense of humor.

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