Anybody heard of The Chive?!

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  • klkateri
    klkateri Posts: 432 Member
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    I like Chive and I also like Reddit

    I don't care if my hubby looks at half naked women, or porn, or both... and to honest he can oggle real life ladies too. Hell, I've even told him a drunk make out is fine just be honest about it.

    However, We've been together for 15 years and I know that he knows where his bread is buttered lol.

    Besides.... If I complain about his oggleing of the ladies... he might make me take down my computer wall paper full of half naked, very ripped yummy yummy men and not let me oggle the very ripped, yummy men in my life too lol ;-)

    (It all goes both ways!!)
  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
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    Chive. Even I look at The Chive.

    It's an all-you-can-eat buffet of boobies and butts. What's not to like?

    KCCO

    What's not to like? Intellectual Property on the Internet.

    huh?
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    Sounds like you're insecure. Unless your boyfriend is extremely uninterested in you, try not to worry so much.
  • LuLa_Waggs
    LuLa_Waggs Posts: 2
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    I am a Chiver. My hubby views The Chive daily and I have The Berry. Instead of half naked girls you get half naked men.

    CHIVE ON!!
  • SofaKingRad_II
    SofaKingRad_II Posts: 591
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    I finally got an e-mail yesterday that my size of KCCO shirts was available to buy. F*ckers sold out as fast as I clicked the link. :cry:
  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
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    I finally got an e-mail yesterday that my size of KCCO shirts was available to buy. F*ckers sold out as fast as I clicked the link. :cry:

    haha, I got lucky and got another Bill Murray 3D yesterday when they emailed! :)
  • Zx14chick
    Zx14chick Posts: 255 Member
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    Insecurity and distrust. Unless you have a real deep-seated reason to think he's cheating on you, get over it. If you are that worried about it, then you probably shouldn't be with him. My husband looks at the Chive and shares stuff from it with me on a daily basis. It's a little annoying, but I'm sure it's like me sharing photos from Facebook with him.

    I had an ex that, for some reason, I always felt jealousy with. I later found that he had been cheating, although twelve years later he still wouldn't admit it. If your guy is hiding phone calls and texts, that is a problem. If he's looking at the Chive, you are overreacting based on your insecurity.
  • cest_moi_ep
    cest_moi_ep Posts: 4
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    Thank you all for what you said. :) A lot of good points and good advice. I'd quote each one and whatnot but I know that will make my post even more long and I don't want to kill you guys with lots of novels. :) Thank you all again!
  • Swimgatorchic
    Swimgatorchic Posts: 7 Member
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    So I too am affected by this as my bf looks at this daily, (who is 44 btw) certainly not to the extent of discussing or ordering things from the site, but still bothers me. I've caught him, shoot his mom caught him when they were over visiting last summer. I get guys are visual, but they don't have to be disrespectful about it. We females understand you're gonna look, just don't do around us or when you're with us. We want to think we are the only hot girl in your world (even if we know not true, we want to be made to feel that way and treated as such, while with us and not be disrespectful). I think if they do it with their guys, not as bad, but shouldn't be a bad habit or in front of their gf/fiancé ir wife). I try to ignore and not bring up because that does no good. He has stopped some behaviors he knows causes me to feel insecure, I think any girl would, then wonders why I want bigger boobs and plastic surgery-really? You *kitten* men cause this by being disrespectful in front of your girl. I also want to agree with someone who said it's more bothersome then porn, porn is unattainable and unrealistic/fantasy for the most part, the Chive hot girls seems more realistic and attainable which worries us pretty girls into thinking and feeling "are we not hot or good enough, or why would he do that, is he not satisfied?"
    We feel like crap when guys do that. It's hard enough being a women, but I swear social media has ruined many people and relationships because people will get caught and end up hurting people looking and "liking" pictures of random hot strangers-for what??
    I'm going to write to the Chive and ask why they don't have a category of hot guys like they do for hot girls as that would only be fair and Id like to see what bf's think and feel like when their girl is looking at hot guys!!!
  • CincyNeid
    CincyNeid Posts: 1,249 Member
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    Yes I frequent the Chive. It's not a daily thing. Typically FLBP Monday, Sports Bra Monday and the DAR. That's about it.
  • festerw
    festerw Posts: 233 Member
    edited July 2016
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    Swimgatorchic wrote: »
    I'm going to write to the Chive and ask why they don't have a category of hot guys like they do for hot girls as that would only be fair and Id like to see what bf's think and feel like when their girl is looking at hot guys!!!

    They have a related site called http://theberry.com for the female perspective.
  • Swimgatorchic
    Swimgatorchic Posts: 7 Member
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    They should have one in the Chive. Im going to raise the issue!!
  • tatilove1988
    tatilove1988 Posts: 322 Member
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    Don't be concerned. There's the female version called theberry. They have workout motivation pics, and also photos of hot guys who are in shape. Any guy can post their photos there too, not just models. It's pretty much the same thing as the chive, but has more women.
  • Swimgatorchic
    Swimgatorchic Posts: 7 Member
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    It's not the same-there should be a category on the Chive of sexy half naked men to only be fair.
  • Thisnameischosen_
    Thisnameischosen_ Posts: 619 Member
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    When I read the title of this thread I thought it was maybe a dance??
    The tango.
    The fox trott.
    The Chive.
  • Swimgatorchic
    Swimgatorchic Posts: 7 Member
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    What MFP??
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
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    Nope. Never heard of it.

    KCCO
  • Swimgatorchic
    Swimgatorchic Posts: 7 Member
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    What does MFP stand for?
  • Swimgatorchic
    Swimgatorchic Posts: 7 Member
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    Thanks!! A little slow with the acronyms.

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