Comments about your pre-weight loss appearance

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  • JdoubleJ
    JdoubleJ Posts: 37 Member
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    Thanks, guys.

    I confess that I got incredibly angry and was insulted at these questions. There's so much more to life than a pants size, as someone rightfully said! The people in my life (and in everyone's lives) should be there and love me for who I am on the inside. That's what is truly important.

    I basically said the same thing about the photos. They capture who I was at that time, and as most of those were taken in college, they show precious memories of my friends and family. Perhaps I didn't look amazing or my own ideal at that time. So what? I was happy to be around my friends, proud of my accomplishments, and excited about life. I'm proud of that girl, and I wouldn't erase her or any evidence of her for anyone. Being her made me the person I am today.

    So true. I met my husband when I was 40 lbs heavier than I am now, and Igot mydegree. Why delete photos from an incredible time of my life?

    I think yourfriend has their own issues about image and weight.