why isn't he all over me?

Iwishyouwell

There is A LOT more that goes into attraction than weight and looks.

You assumed he'd be "all over you" because you assumed your issues with your own body correlated with his issues. That might not be true at all.

And the whole "girls online" thing, I mean really? Guarantee you the husbands of every supermodel in the world have looked at "girls online". Even Halle Berry was cheated on. Women need to stop assuming that men looking, or feeling attracted to other women, has a lick to do with what kind of shape you're in. You know, the same way plenty of women don't stop finding the Brad Pitts, Ryan Goslings, and Denzel Washingtons of the world attractive just because their husband might be fine looking.