If i don't exercise, then I don't get to eat. :(

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Hi all, new here, started a couple of weeks ago. A horrifying thought has occurred to me. Like the title says - if I don't kill a couple of hundred or more calories, somewhere, anywhere, then basically I am insanely hungry and usually run out of calory allowance near the end of the day

I can't make do on a 200- 300 calories dinner (supper - evening meal), sorry. I'd rather put in an 45-60 minutes of exercise and have a half decent dinner than eat a salad and expect that to hold me until morning. Needless to say I eat all or most of my exercise calories back

Wimpy? Not getting it? Greedy, Glutenous?

Is this normal?


Facts:
Need to lose about 15-20 pounds,
On the 1 pound a week loss program
Pretty active but not super athletic.
Usually gym (weights) or run (20-30 minutes) or ski almost everyday.
Fairly active job.
Hungry all the time
Scale not really moving much, but feel great for some reason.

ChaplainHeavin

Losing weight has more to do with controlling your calorie intake than the work out. Last night because of the bad weather and heavy traffic I didn't get home in time to workout. However, I just made sure I stayed within my amount of calories (1790 in order to lose a pound a week). The work out should be to keep your body fit.

bettyp55

In my experience...you can't out exercise a bad diet. I tend to lose my weight while staying within my caloric intake for the day. The exercise is what makes me see reults...flatter tummy, shaply arms, etc.

ChaplainHeavin

In my experience...you can't out exercise a bad diet. I tend to lose my weight while staying within my caloric intake for the day. The exercise is what makes me see reults...flatter tummy, shaply arms, etc.

Exactly

DirrtyH

What are you eating for breakfast? Lunch? Are there other places you can cut calories to save for dinner?
Are you sure calculated your calories correctly? If you have a pretty active job, maybe you need more calories than MFP is giving you. It's hard to say when we can't see your diary.

bcattoes

I am pretty much the same way. I am not happy eating the amount I can eat and not gain without exercise. I actually think this is a good thing, though, since exercise is so important to health.

TR0berts

Facts:
Need to lose about 15-20 pounds,
On the 1 pound a week loss program

Change to 1/2 lb per week loss. Problem solved.

sfbaumgarten

Facts:
Need to lose about 15-20 pounds,
On the 1 pound a week loss program

Change to 1/2 lb per week loss. Problem solved.

+1

Even then, these "goals" are just guidelines. I eat over the maintenance goal that MFP gave me and I'm still slowly losing weight. Find what works for you.

auddii

How many calories are you eating a day? If you have an active job, then you should list yourself as moderately active. And half a pound a week might be appropriate if you don't have much to lose. That should give you a fair amount of calories since you're male. If you still end up with 200 calories for dinner I'd try preplanning your days and spreading your calories throughout the day.

Psysix

Your stomach will adjust to lower amounts of food and you will not be hungry if you just bear with it for a while. I am not hungry on 8 to 9 ounce liquid meals, four times a day, but my first week doing it I was hungry almost all the time. The body adjusts. If you can soldier through a few days of being hungry between meals, you can decrease your intake and be comfortable later. Also, drinking a lot of water between meals helps the hunger stay away. If you can't handle lowering the amount of food intake, consider fluffing your meals with very low calorie options such as celery, cabbage, lettuce, and for a sweet tooth, grapes.

knra_grl

Facts:
Need to lose about 15-20 pounds,
On the 1 pound a week loss program

Change to 1/2 lb per week loss. Problem solved.

+1

Even then, these "goals" are just guidelines. I eat over the maintenance goal that MFP gave me and I'm still slowly losing weight. Find what works for you.

This and your diary is private so not sure what you are eating? In general I think men need more protein and not sure how much you are eating but if you are as active as you say that could be part of the problem.

bcf7683

Your stomach will adjust to lower amounts of food and you will not be hungry if you just bear with it for a while. I am not hungry on 8 to 9 ounce liquid meals, four times a day, but my first week doing it I was hungry almost all the time. The body adjusts. If you can soldier through a few days of being hungry between meals, you can decrease your intake and be comfortable later. Also, drinking a lot of water between meals helps the hunger stay away. If you can't handle lowering the amount of food intake, consider fluffing your meals with very low calorie options such as celery, cabbage, lettuce, and for a sweet tooth, grapes.

^^^Not too sure about that... I'd rather eat my food than drink it.

But if you're constantly hungry, that usually means your body wants food (and water). Without seeing your diary and not knowing how many calories you're on (hopefully not just 1200) and what types of foods you're eating (hopefully lean proteins, complex carbs and fruits/vegs), I would suggest that you get a heart rate monitor and wear it around for a couple full days to see how many calories you're REALLY burning throughout the day- how many you burn just living (working, going about your day) and how many you're burning when you go to the gym. Wearing it for a *full* day to see how many calories you're burning by doing things other than the gym might really help you out. You might be really surprised by those numbers.

If you don't have a strong baseline to go from it's hard to figure things out exactly.

ottermotorcycle

Yeah, if you only have a little to lose then it may benefit you to simply lose more slowly, at a 1/2 pound a week. But changing your diet around is really the key to staying satisfied and not being hungry. Eat fiber and protein at every meal. Make certain you're getting enough water!!! A lot of people don't log water but hunger and thirst are very similar feelings plus water has a host of other benefits. I just had a meal and thought I was still hungry, then realized I only had 2 cups of water today... duh, I'm thirsty!

phitnphat712

I'm a trainer and I've lost 100lbs. I agree with the above that you are undereating. I would change to a .5lb loss per week and you should get more calories. Keep up with your vegetables, too. They are filling and a lot of people who feel hungry often don't get in vegetables more than lunch and dinner. But, as someone who is active and lifts weights, too, you will stall if you are undereating and I coach my clients to override the MFP settings about 95% of the time. They chronically are too low for most people.

Greytfish

Facts:
Need to lose about 15-20 pounds,
On the 1 pound a week loss program

Change to 1/2 lb per week loss. Problem solved.

This.

It's really unrealistic to expect to lose more than 1/2 lb. per week when the amount to lose is small.

pjb58

I know exactly what you are saying! I needed to lose 35 lbs. Went to see a nutritionist who helped me set up MFP. Only allowed 1200 calories per day w/o exercise. I can easily eat 700 calories for breakfast alone! I have really had to adjust my mind-set and eating habits. Many times I have jokingly said "I have to exercise so I can eat".
I have found that after I exercise, even if I go over the calories allotted (up to 200 calories), I still lose weight.
So far this seems to be working for me.
Hang in there! The weight will come off.

iamallpink

This is my first time posting on here. But here are a few things that I noticed so far.

In order for me to lose weight and still eat - I start looking at the ingredients that I am consuming. And I check my pie chart/graph that is showing me what I am allowed daily vs what I have consumed. My biggest problem was sugar. By watching how many grams of sugar each thing is that I eat or how much i eat during the day, it actually helps. It makes me make better choices for snack foods or meals. And when I exercise, i know that the harder I work out that day, the more benefits i will get and the extra calories for either dinner or snacks.. depending on when I work out.

I haven't noticed the scale move alot either -- maybe 3-4 lbs over the last 2 weeks but thats fine. My job during the day is pretty much at a desk. So I get my other exercise from my 2nd job and the gym. You also burn calories from doing simple household chores or fun activities so even if you dont go to the gym everyday - you are still buring calories by cleaning or shoveling or playing at the park with your kids or a pet.

For me, my most hungry time of the day is around lunch time. I have never been a big breakfast eater, which i hear is a bad thing as that is supposed to be your best / biggest meal of the day but I just can't do it. So i consume most of my calories at lunch. I know not to eat a whole lot for dinner as that is when I go to the gym (at night).

Keep trying different things... you will find something that will satisfy your eating habits. Foods that are higer in protein/fiber are a good filler.

Good luck !!!
Michelle

BL_Coleman

I use this methodoligy with desserts...no treadmill=no cookie...

skinnyinnotime

Can't see your diary...do you eat enough protein? This wold make you feel full for a longer time and you also need it if you're doing alot of lifting.

psych101

how many calories are you eating?

Exercising in order to be able to eat is a scary thought process and can lead to unhealthy habits. I'd say, watch your calories to lose weight, exercise to look awesome

wonderwoman234

I don't think you need to be hungry while losing weight. I think there are things you can do to help yourself:
1) Eat protein at every meal
2) Be choosy about what you eat...forgo crap and opt for nutritious foods and watch the carbs, which can be high in calories, and indulge in fruits and veggies
3) Drink lots of herbal tea and water
4) Allow yourself things you like - just in smaller quantities - and figure out what you can easily give up and what you can't live without. I found it was easy to switch to milk in my coffee instead of cream and drink herbal tea instead of tea with milk and sugar....but I have to have my Ghirardelli 60% cacao chocolate chips and a few Jax Cheese Puffs every once in a while.

There is also a difference between physical hunger and mental/emotional hunger. You might feel "hungry" all the time because you are feeling deprived because of your calorie restrictions. You can differentiate between emotional and physical hunger this way:

- emotional hunger comes on suddenly and usually involves a "craving" for a certain food
- physical hunger comes on slowly and you can feel your stomach grumbling a bit, but it is not a sudden thing (unless you are hypoglycemic)
- when you are physically hungry you will eat anything, like an apple or something else healthy. If you don't want an apple, you probably aren't truly hungry....