How do YOU cope with Break ups?

NekaMaye88

Working out more? Working out less? Eating better? Eating terribly? Sleeping a lot/less? ETC...

sbarella

Drinking and eating awfully, but especially cleaning and tidying like there's no tomrrow. Thank God my house has been a mess for a while now.

MomOfRose

When my BF of 10 months broke up with me, I didn't eat much for the following 3-4 months. Then when I hadn't found anyone to fill the hole, I started eating pasta (and only pasta) for dinner for the next 3-4 months. Now I'm kicking my butt for being an idiot and trying to lose the weight I gained.

dumb_blondes_rock

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. At least that's what "they" say.

I have never had a breakup, but I would be damn sure I would make myself look as hot as possible so the ahole would be sorry we ever broke up

kdb247

Cry one time, and one time only (I think that’s a hormonal thing). Can’t say drink because I drink, no events required. If anything, I would feel sad and if that sadness worsened I would say extra prayers. Otherwise I would keep it moving, YOLO!

WeepingAngel81

Take a hot bath, drink a glass of wine, have a good cry, then conclude it's his loss and I move on. No sense wasting time on someone who doesn't want to be with me.

MizMiami305

More online dating!

Sinisterly

More online dating!

Lmao, was about to reply and this caught me off guard.

Sinisterly

Stuff my face then decide to do something about it in about a week or two lol.

tavenne323

wine, chocolate, and a lot of writing...and a vacation

Dewymorning

There were two stages.

1st stage was totally pampering myself and eating whatever I wanted
2nd stage, diving into healthy eating and exercise head first

SGM_Adonis

After they take my "just break up" advice from here on the forums, I usually send them a FR and let them use me as a rebound bang.

SKINNYsupermodel

Cry, have a good hard workout and take a long nap. Then wake up the next day and do something that makes me happy, and move on.

ItsCasey

Tend to work out more and eat less. I am not a stress/depression eater. Interestingly enough, my last break up was almost exactly a year ago.

mortuseon

Only ever had one break-up but I became underweight afterwards because I got so depressed that my appetite just seemed to evaporate. Not the best way to do it!

Lesa_Sass

Lots of crying and chocolate.

Drinking is an option but I feel it makes things worse. Nothing classier than a drunken phone call in the middle of the night begging them back OR telling them how much better off we are with out them.....then there is the whole hang over thing. It prolongs the pain because it numbs is and keeps us from feeling and experiencing the grieving process.

The physical pain is real and it SUCKS! Ya know, the feeling that someone is choking us while kicking us in the gut and punching us in the heart. This is a reaction to a chemical being cut off in our brain that is produced when we are in a relationship. We have to physically detox off of that for a while, then the emotional healing takes place.

I am very sorry for your pain. I have been hurt a few times and never EVER thought I would be able to love again. I thought it was all over for me and I had lost the only love I had ever known. Learn and grow from past relationships and they will prepare you for the greatest gift of the most wonderful relationship in the world.

Until then, cry a lot and eat chocolate.

Hugs

shrinkingfeefee

For me it was my husband of 4 years and while I was pregnant last year, at first it was hard for me to believe someone I loved for 8 years could do me how he did me so I sunk low with depression but then realized I had to do what was best for me and my 2 babies, so now I workout and am working on going back to school. For myself I truly have found that the best healing started within.

Sinisterly

You guys should post the date of your breakup...so I can look for the most vulnerable.

Uh. Don't remember the date of any.
-erases that from mind-

hyperbolee

Voodoo dolls or lock them in the basement. It's all good.

JamericanBoy

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You're welcome.

Sinisterly

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You're welcome.

I don't want to buy hamsters! Those things poop too much!!!

suziepoo1984

Had only one breakup and at the end i think i was glad it was over! I had piled on pounds stuffing my face at the end of the relationship and actually started eating better after the breakup and lost a lot of weight!!!

bperkins88

I usually go to this mcdonalds pictured below.

Kaylee09201992

Well I broke up with my boyfriend today and I plan to cope with it by being awesome!

SGM_Adonis

I usually go to this mcdonalds pictured below.

Right under the G of "Legit" in front of the arch for the "M"...is that a sprinkler system on the cart? To meet fire code regulations?

Amazonbella

I'm Italian-this is how we cope!

bperkins88

LOL .. Dont want to get you mad Amazonbella :noway:

SGM_Adonis

I'm Italian-this is how we cope!

Oh lawd....

jos05

I just get back out there!!
When my ex and I broke up last year... I think I took that super hard. I drank a lot! I ate everything and anything that wasn't nailed down ...lol!

But after about 6 months of throwing myself a pity party... I just sucked it up... went back to the gym. And I am looking so good these days... I love it when we run into each other and he's all like... Whoa! You're looking great! ---- that's right and I am never taking you back...lmao!!


<insert evil laugh>
Make yourself look smokin' hot...and get yourself someone new... there's always someone else.

Or as my momma always told me... "NEXT!"

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Sinisterly

I'm Italian-this is how we cope!

I bid $300 for the car! If the motor wasn't shot.