what would you do if.....

bella24xo

ok soo I really need some advice here, I normally don't do this for starts and I am honestly disgusted I even am telling the story but I have to share...

me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months and things are sorta off up and down to say the very least...this past weekend I was playing a game on his I- pad like I do often ( he gave me the password and all for it ) when something popped up that was alarming...low and behold... there was this conversation with another girl...a conversation that is any girls worst nightmare...pictures and lots of pictures of this other girl.....I was horrified I cried screamed bugged out and after A little bit of snooping...I concluded this girl is married, and has children...so why would she be sending MY BOYFRIEND these pictures? Of course, he wasent innocent in this matter either....I woke him up and obviously flipped out...and the worst part....he really doesn't have a reasoning ( not that that would make it right or better). Its been a few days and I still cant seem to shake how I feel about it....I do really think hes sorry and knows he messed up but....my question is....

What would you do in a situation like this?

summertime_girl

Break up, definitely. You've only been together for a short time, it's been rocky, you don't have a lot invested. If he's cheating already with a married girl, ditch him. Not worth it at all.

slr90

Break up, definitely. You've only been together for a short time, it's been rocky, you don't have a lot invested. If he's cheating already with a married girl, ditch him. Not worth it at all.

This. Couldn't have put it any better.

DJMIKEY1

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Dump and move on.

thatonegirlwiththestuff

Are you at all wanted for murder right now? If not, I applaud you.
And on a serious note, you really need to think about this. Cheating isn't a mistake. It's a choice.

salembambi

dump him , eat some ice cream , cry

move on

monty619

if you aren't on cloud 9 for the first few months dating and things are up and down... AND u find pics n stuff, it should be obvious

sally_jeffswife

Move on, he's obviously not grown up yet and if he has that little respect for committment than if it ever got serious he probably would have little respect for it then as well. You deserve better and deserve 100 percent don't settle for .25 percent.

futurejedi

ok soo I really need some advice here, I normally don't do this for starts and I am honestly disgusted I even am telling the story but I have to share...

me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months and things are sorta off up and down to say the very least...this past weekend I was playing a game on his I- pad like I do often ( he gave me the password and all for it ) when something popped up that was alarming...low and behold... there was this conversation with another girl...a conversation that is any girls worst nightmare...pictures and lots of pictures of this other girl.....I was horrified I cried screamed bugged out and after A little bit of snooping...I concluded this girl is married, and has children...so why would she be sending MY BOYFRIEND these pictures? Of course, he wasent innocent in this matter either....I woke him up and obviously flipped out...and the worst part....he really doesn't have a reasoning ( not that that would make it right or better). Its been a few days and I still cant seem to shake how I feel about it....I do really think hes sorry and knows he messed up but....my question is....

What would you do in a situation like this?

find out who the other chick is and let her husband know

HawkeyeTy

ok soo I really need some advice here, I normally don't do this for starts and I am honestly disgusted I even am telling the story but I have to share...

me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months and things are sorta off up and down to say the very least...this past weekend I was playing a game on his I- pad like I do often ( he gave me the password and all for it ) when something popped up that was alarming...low and behold... there was this conversation with another girl...a conversation that is any girls worst nightmare...pictures and lots of pictures of this other girl.....I was horrified I cried screamed bugged out and after A little bit of snooping...I concluded this girl is married, and has children...so why would she be sending MY BOYFRIEND these pictures? Of course, he wasent innocent in this matter either....I woke him up and obviously flipped out...and the worst part....he really doesn't have a reasoning ( not that that would make it right or better). Its been a few days and I still cant seem to shake how I feel about it....I do really think hes sorry and knows he messed up but....my question is....

What would you do in a situation like this?

find out who the other chick is and let her husband know

I would NOT do this...

TX_Rhon

If I was flrting with someone and sending junk pics, I would not give my BF the code to my phone/iPad or whatever. Maybe he wanted you to find it.......Just a thought.

If he does it once and gets away, it will probably happen again.