Yes, yes I am

deeskr
deeskr Posts: 16 Member
edited September 21 in Motivation and Support
My son, not meaning too let the word fat slip when he was talking about/to me... He began to cry. He felt so bad that he had called me fat. Bless his heart. He starts saying I'm sorry Dad I didn't mean to call you that. I picked him up and said, "You're right, I am fat." He looked at me and said "but youre working on that ,right dad?"....

"Yes, yes I am!"

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  • That is so incredibly sad! I would have cried :(
  • inktink
    inktink Posts: 135 Member
    Kids are so good at being so honest, lol. Congrats to you for choosing to teach him, that being "fat" is something that can be worked on, and that you are working on it :)

    Good job "dad!"
  • Oh, bless his heart! My five year old is finally aware of people at stores and has just learned that if he's curious he needs to whisper in mom's ear - not say things out loud. The honesty of children amazes me. I also think it's a testament to what a great dad you must be. Some people would get upset with their child and make them feel bad for simply stating what they observe, but you didn't get defensive and tried to make him feel better. On top of that, you're setting a great example for him. :smile:
  • Well done. Your son is so lucky to have such a role model.
  • khk2010
    khk2010 Posts: 451 Member
    Many years back my son looked at me and said "Fat mommy". It cut to the core but I didn't do anything about it. Now I am. I can see the impact healthier choices is having on my kids and family. They see me working out, eating healthy and losing weight and inches. I can see them making healthier choices. Better late than never to be a good role model!

    Good for you for being a positive role model for your son.
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