do *I* like...

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
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Do I like what I see when I look in the mirror? If I answer yes, then hooray. If I answer no, then I will put in the work that is needed to get me to the place I feel I will be happy. Because then, and only then will the confidence set in. I am the only person I should ask what my looks, weight, shape, body type, or anything else matters.

Do you for you. Be whatever weight, size, shape you want to be. As long as you are happy with yourself, that is all that matters.

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  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    Exactly. :heart:
  • belle_of_the_bar
    belle_of_the_bar Posts: 474 Member
    Yep!!! And realize that most of what you see in the media is retouched, covered in make up, and airbrushed.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    Yep!!! And realize that most of what you see in the media is retouched, covered in make up, and airbrushed.

    I was thinking more along the lines of all of the "do men like "x" threads on here.
  • mamahannick
    mamahannick Posts: 322 Member
    This is awesome. :)
  • Whyareyoumad
    Whyareyoumad Posts: 268 Member
    Do I like what I see when I look in the mirror? If I answer yes, then hooray. If I answer no, then I will put in the work that is needed to get me to the place I feel I will be happy. Because then, and only then will the confidence set in. I am the only person I should ask what my looks, weight, shape, body type, or anything else matters.

    Do you for you. Be whatever weight, size, shape you want to be. As long as you are happy with yourself, that is all that matters.

    Absolutely! Good post.
  • chunkybun
    chunkybun Posts: 179 Member
    As long as it's not a full length mirror. Waist up- hell yes, I'm happy.... take a step back, and well, at least I can reach the light switch.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    Do I like what I see when I look in the mirror? If I answer yes, then hooray. If I answer no, then I will put in the work that is needed to get me to the place I feel I will be happy. Because then, and only then will the confidence set in. I am the only person I should ask what my looks, weight, shape, body type, or anything else matters.

    Do you for you. Be whatever weight, size, shape you want to be. As long as you are happy with yourself, that is all that matters.

    I agree mostly..except when it comes to health. If what you see is causing health issues change it regardless.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    Do I like what I see when I look in the mirror? If I answer yes, then hooray. If I answer no, then I will put in the work that is needed to get me to the place I feel I will be happy. Because then, and only then will the confidence set in. I am the only person I should ask what my looks, weight, shape, body type, or anything else matters.

    Do you for you. Be whatever weight, size, shape you want to be. As long as you are happy with yourself, that is all that matters.

    I agree mostly..except when it comes to health. If what you see is causing health issues change it regardless.

    well, I'm hoping if they're happy with themselves, they are also in a healthy range....

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