Playing hard to get towards the opposite sex

curvygirly911

I have an off topic question: We have all heard the line "play hard to get" and I'm just wondering how that worked for you?

Taking hours or days to reply back to the person and make them wait, acting busy the first few times he asks to meet, and not showing your interest - are all things I have been advised before but I just think that's wrong. There's this theory that if he is waiting for you then he is thinking about you and therefore you seem more desirable and less attainable. I'm not sure if that's complete **** or realistic? I really believe that there should be no games and you should be yourself simply, but I'm not sure if that's the wrong mentality. I am naturally very outgoing, friendly and I offer tips and help to pretty much anyone I meet; but I don't know if this could be taken the wrong way in the dating world and deemed desperate?

What's worked for you and what hasn't? Thanks in advance :flowerforyou:

Ihatecoldsoup

People should just be upfront. If you want to call someone, call them. Why wait? Of course, it needs to be reasonable. If I sense a girl is playing games, I am out. Too old for that.