I'm new to MFP and am here for Me...Finally! Question - Can

Olympic
Olympic Posts: 2 Member
edited September 21 in Introduce Yourself
I excell in my career and relationships, but when it comes to taking care of me, I fail. Why do I always put taking care of myself last on the list??

This is a new start for me. I would love to connect with people who have conquered (or are in the process of conquering) a long battel with PUTTING THEMSELVES FIRST. Making Excercise a priority. And Fueling their body with good, healthy nutrients (no garbage foods)!

Let's connect and keep each other motivated....WARNING: I'm going to need support. My track record shows 2-3 weeks in, I give up....life gets too busy, I don't make TAKING CARE OF ME AND MY BODY a priority --- who can help??? I promise to be a motivating and engaged Fitness Pal!

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  • dragonfly__
    dragonfly__ Posts: 172 Member
    As a mother of 3 busy kiddos and wife to one over scheduled husband I don't always get the chance to put myself first..... but I NEVER put myself last either! I make sure my needs and wants are met as well. I always find time to schedule in my exercise for the day even if I have to work around others. It makes for a happier me and a happier household! I grew watching my mother cater to her families every need, even so much so that she would fix three different meals at dinner time to please everyone. I swore I would never lose myself to my family and I haven't. I have always been good at what ever it is that I set out to do and my fitness and lifestyle are no exception! Welcome to MFP, glad to meet you!
  • MaryTheIceCube
    MaryTheIceCube Posts: 1,099 Member
    Hello and welcome to MFP! Congratulations on your decision to get fit. You sound very determined, and that's great! You'll find everyone on this site to be very positive, encouraging and motivating. Feel free to friend request me if you'd like. :)

    Also, if you're on Facebook, please feel free to check out the group I created over there, called Motivation. Many positive, encouraging people and helpful posts over that way, too! http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=268180696780&ref=ts

    Best wishes on your fitness journey!

    ~ Chandra
  • CombatVet_Armywife
    CombatVet_Armywife Posts: 300 Member
    Welcome! You've taken the first step to answering your question. I think most women tend to put themselves last on their list....I've been told it's in our nature. I have always been the same way...luckily I have a husband who is okay with AND motivates me to take care of myself, especially when it comes to my health & fitness. I won't go into a long drawn out story, but what I will say is you need to MAKE yourself, make yourself a priority. What works for others may not work for you, it will take time and effort to discover what does work for you and HOW to make yourself a priority. You will certainly find plenty of support & motivation here.....enjoy it.....it's good to have you here! :flowerforyou:
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