How much to eat?

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I'm a newbie and just started a 3 day a week weightlifting program consisting of squats, Deadlifts, bench press, rows, overhead press, and 1-2 isolation exercises mixed in about 3-4 weeks ago. I'm a female, 5'2", 99lbs. I do have some body fat to lose (caliper measurement said I'm like 25% body fat) but I want to build muscle and put on some weight so I decided to bulk. I've done different calculators and get mixed results. I am getting at least 1g of protein per pound of body weight. My carb/ fat/protein macros are around 45/20/35. MFP said I need around 1660 calories to gain .5lbs a week. The problem I'm having with the calculators is I have a desk job so I'm mostly sedentary all day but I do my intense workout 3 days a week. I started out only eating a little over 1500 calories and that wasn't enough. I weigh myself every day and then take the average at the end of the week. Even at 1650 calories my weight has been staying anywhere from 98-100 lbs. how much more should I increase my calories? I feel it's going to be hard to eat so much!

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  • butlersoft
    butlersoft Posts: 219 Member
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    Since you just started - you need to give yourself time to see some difference.

    What were you eating before in terms of calories?? 1660 isn't a whole lot of calories - particularly if you're exercising and it could be that your TDEE is significantly higher ... which then puts you at either maintenance (or even a defecit)
  • butlersoft
    butlersoft Posts: 219 Member
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    Use this to check your TDEE :

    http://iifym.com/tdee-calculator/
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    1 week isnt long enough to say if its enough calories or not... that being said 1600 isnt a massive amount, so i would add another 100 and then weigh yourself in a couple of weeks. if your weight is still stable then add some more cals till you see a gain.

    I have found that MFP sets maintenance calories a little low.
  • rf1583
    rf1583 Posts: 65
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    Since you just started - you need to give yourself time to see some difference.

    What were you eating before in terms of calories?? 1660 isn't a whole lot of calories - particularly if you're exercising and it could be that your TDEE is significantly higher ... which then puts you at either maintenance (or even a defecit)

    I have no idea what I was eating before but my weight has literally not changed much in the past 10 years. Since I started working full time 7 years ago (I'm 31) , I maybe went up a few pounds to being more sedentary. I must've been eating less than 1600 calories especially since I wasn't exercising much at all then. I'll give it time, I know this is a slow process. I just want to make sure I'm doing the right thing to eventually see gains.
  • rf1583
    rf1583 Posts: 65
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    Use this to check your TDEE :

    http://iifym.com/tdee-calculator/

    Ok I just used that calculator and it said my TDEE is 1538 so should I increase another 100 calories a day (1750 or so) or more? I don't know how much more I can eat!
  • mebepiglet123
    mebepiglet123 Posts: 327 Member
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    High dense calorie foods will help

    Olive oil, peanut butter, nuts, my minds gone blank sure others will come up with more. Geeze wish I had your problem....????????????????????
  • geekyjock76
    geekyjock76 Posts: 2,720 Member
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    I would buy a digital food scale and use it to weigh all the food you eat. Calculators only provide estimates; and each formula will utilise a different set of variables. That's why you get a wide range of estimated intake.

    With that said, your actual TDEE could be as much as 1750 calories. Once you establish actual TDEE, you can add 200-300 calories to gain about 0.5 per week. How much muscle to fat you gain depends on genetics as well as training age.
  • rf1583
    rf1583 Posts: 65
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    I would buy a digital food scale and use it to weigh all the food you eat. Calculators only provide estimates; and each formula will utilise a different set of variables. That's why you get a wide range of estimated intake.

    With that said, your actual TDEE could be as much as 1750 calories. Once you establish actual TDEE, you can add 200-300 calories to gain about 0.5 per week. How much muscle to fat you gain depends on genetics as well as training age.

    I did buy a digital good scale and have been meticulously weighing my foods. I think maybe since I just recently increased calories to 1650-1700 I should stick around 1700 just for a little while longer to see if I do gain weight and go from there. I don't want to gain weight too fast.
  • chani8
    chani8 Posts: 946 Member
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    It's real easy to gain fat and very hard to gain actual muscle mass. So really, go very slow on the weight gain.

    Are you already toned and in shape?
  • rf1583
    rf1583 Posts: 65
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    It's real easy to gain fat and very hard to gain actual muscle mass. So really, go very slow on the weight gain.

    Are you already toned and in shape?

    I added a pic to my profile so you can see what I look like now. I don't look out of shape but I'm not toned at all and I have little muscle. After reading so much I figured it was best for me to bulk because I really can't afford to lose any weight at this point. I know I'll gain muscle very slowly so that's why I don't want to eat too much and put on too much fat because on my frame that will not be too flattering!
  • NRBreit
    NRBreit Posts: 319 Member
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    Sounds like you're off to a good start. Do what you're doing for a couple of weeks and, if the scale isn't moving at all, you can experiment with increasing your cals by 150-200 cals. Keep monitoring your rate of gain and adjust cals as needed.
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
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    It's real easy to gain fat and very hard to gain actual muscle mass. So really, go very slow on the weight gain.

    Are you already toned and in shape?

    I added a pic to my profile so you can see what I look like now. I don't look out of shape but I'm not toned at all and I have little muscle. After reading so much I figured it was best for me to bulk because I really can't afford to lose any weight at this point. I know I'll gain muscle very slowly so that's why I don't want to eat too much and put on too much fat because on my frame that will not be too flattering!

    I would really worry more about putting on some serious weight first than putting on the fat. You are in a good place to eat and lift and put on good size and build muscle- yes as a woman it's harder- but dont' let some fat gain scare you away- lift eat and get bigger.

    Then worry about the cutting to look toned. Women get really uptight about not looking svelt all the time- but the reality is you aren't going to get some solid size muscle without putting on some fat. So either accept the process will be obscenely painfully slow and unsatisfying- or

    go ahead- realize you are going to put on 10-15 lbs- and you are going to see amazing gains with your lifts- feel better- be stronger- and then in 4-6 months do a nice cut and look *kitten* hot.
  • rf1583
    rf1583 Posts: 65
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    It's real easy to gain fat and very hard to gain actual muscle mass. So really, go very slow on the weight gain.

    Are you already toned and in shape?

    I added a pic to my profile so you can see what I look like now. I don't look out of shape but I'm not toned at all and I have little muscle. After reading so much I figured it was best for me to bulk because I really can't afford to lose any weight at this point. I know I'll gain muscle very slowly so that's why I don't want to eat too much and put on too much fat because on my frame that will not be too flattering!

    I would really worry more about putting on some serious weight first than putting on the fat. You are in a good place to eat and lift and put on good size and build muscle- yes as a woman it's harder- but dont' let some fat gain scare you away- lift eat and get bigger.

    Then worry about the cutting to look toned. Women get really uptight about not looking svelt all the time- but the reality is you aren't going to get some solid size muscle without putting on some fat. So either accept the process will be obscenely painfully slow and unsatisfying- or

    go ahead- realize you are going to put on 10-15 lbs- and you are going to see amazing gains with your lifts- feel better- be stronger- and then in 4-6 months do a nice cut and look *kitten* hot.

    Thanks for the pep talk! It is a little hard mentally I guess but I do know the end result could be great so I just need to keep eating and keep lifting heavier and heavier!
  • rf1583
    rf1583 Posts: 65
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    Sounds like you're off to a good start. Do what you're doing for a couple of weeks and, if the scale isn't moving at all, you can experiment with increasing your cals by 150-200 cals. Keep monitoring your rate of gain and adjust cals as needed.

    Thanks I think this sounds like a plan!
  • AliceDark
    AliceDark Posts: 3,886 Member
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    Ok I just used that calculator and it said my TDEE is 1538 so should I increase another 100 calories a day (1750 or so) or more? I don't know how much more I can eat!
    Your appetite will catch up to your increased intake. This is just my experience, but every time I've upped my calories, I have a week or so when it feels like SO MUCH food, then a week or so when I'm constantly starving, then it normalizes. Just stay consistent and ride out the first few weeks, and you'll be fine.
  • likitisplit
    likitisplit Posts: 9,420 Member
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    It's real easy to gain fat and very hard to gain actual muscle mass. So really, go very slow on the weight gain.

    Are you already toned and in shape?

    I added a pic to my profile so you can see what I look like now. I don't look out of shape but I'm not toned at all and I have little muscle. After reading so much I figured it was best for me to bulk because I really can't afford to lose any weight at this point. I know I'll gain muscle very slowly so that's why I don't want to eat too much and put on too much fat because on my frame that will not be too flattering!

    I would really worry more about putting on some serious weight first than putting on the fat. You are in a good place to eat and lift and put on good size and build muscle- yes as a woman it's harder- but dont' let some fat gain scare you away- lift eat and get bigger.

    Then worry about the cutting to look toned. Women get really uptight about not looking svelt all the time- but the reality is you aren't going to get some solid size muscle without putting on some fat. So either accept the process will be obscenely painfully slow and unsatisfying- or

    go ahead- realize you are going to put on 10-15 lbs- and you are going to see amazing gains with your lifts- feel better- be stronger- and then in 4-6 months do a nice cut and look *kitten* hot.

    Praying, hoping, wishing, working.

    Cause option 1 doesn't work for me at all.
    but every time I've upped my calories, I have a week or so when it feels like SO MUCH food, then a week or so when I'm constantly starving, then it normalizes

    This is true for me as well.

    I also wait about 6 weeks before tinkering. I tend to get a lot of variation in my daily weight, so it takes about one cycle for me to see an actual trend.